Fellow Gen Exers, What's your story? I'll tell you mine if you'll tell me yours! ( could be good for the youngsters)

RageLionRising · 2016-06-08T07:50:44+00:00

It's good men are posting these stories for the youngsters. The only loyalty a woman is capable of is to her children. Loyalty to a man is conditional upon his power, resources, and wealth. We need to get this message out to young men not only through the internet, but through popular culture.

It's not bad, it's not good. It's amoral. However, what is immoral is the lie that Disney and other pop culture films tell us about a woman being blissfully in love with a man. Doesn't stay that way for long. A woman's love for a man lasts as long as the moment she has his children, and then it quickly gets transferred to those children. Men need to be made aware of this.

Vega-Pinto-Rust-BOOM · 2016-06-08T11:06:01+00:00

For myself:

When I was a kid, 6-12, i was usually very happy. I loved my toys, my family, my big front yard, myself. I guess I was a 'Bobby Hill(King of the Hill) type of kid; a little pudgy, naive, and just lived for the moment.

At 13, puberty goes into overdrive. It was hard to understand the changes i was going through. Suddenly, every topic for guys went from fun stuff like toys, fighting, cars, guns, etc. to females. You were nothing without pussy. Still be a young and naive person i began a descent into an identity crisis. I became miserable while trying to adapt to what was 'cool'. This went on all the way through high school until post-graduation. I had alienated everyone i was supposed to stay in touch with. I became a hermit and a devotee to my job and self-interests. It was almost utopic. Still, my biological imperative made me feel lonely. Men at work would still talk about pussy and female validation, some even shaming me for my apathy towards relationships. I let it get to me because i was still young.

I'll skip the married/kids part of my life because we all know how that goes.

My epiphany came from dealing with the worst of them all: The White Knight! The enabler to hideous female behavior. A 'man' who will turn a blind eye to reason and loyalty in an attempt to impress a pyrite piece of vagina. Seeing these cucks in action made me realize something myself: I was also one of these cucks always hamstering for females.

Now, i feel no pity. Online dating is rigged. Women demand so much, and give so little. Blue-pill men constantly enable them in the hopes that they will get laid.

Honestly i've felt it all along, i just never woke up to the situation until recently. Women want to fuck around with the brutal abusive Chad, and have a man on the side to be her emotional tampon.

When I watch videos now of feisty women getting smacked, i sadistically smile. When i see a white knight stepping in, i cringe. When i see a white knight get rekt, i maniacally laugh!

2016-06-08T08:39:17+00:00

Grew up in a traditional Baptist family.. Parents still married to this day.. Never really any drama growing up, very civil family life.

Grew up mostly a single child, loner by nature. Broke up with my high school sweetheart when I left for college because I didn't want a long distance relationship.

I was already lifting in high school, but all the free food fueled me to a whole to level of beef cake gains.

Dated two crazy bitches while in school.. Can't say I was miserable, being a natural loner I didn't care if they left and they knew it. Broke up with them both, and both stalked me (sometimes involving police)

Got a really good job. Bought a newer z06, two new motorcycles, and a house.

My 20s were a blur.. I remember mostly being in a large group riding wheelies down the interstate.. I remember sleeping with several curb monkeys, barwhores, and strippers.

Then the market crash happened right after I turned 30 and I had two 18 year olds claiming they were pregnant!! Fuck!! Right after I bought a huge house (foreclosure).

In a bold move I started dating a single mom with a young child that agreed to help with the bills. Turned out the girls were lying about being pregnant, bit to late, I was stuck and miserable.. I had been domesticated. I'm not going to go to much into that since I made an entire thread about that disaster.

Six years later my investments I made after the crash paid off.. Sold my big house and bought a nice smaller foreclosure in a nice area with cash.. Kicked the ex out.. Took some time to myself now I'm going to enjoy my summer on my new bike

TFCNU · 2016-06-08T15:22:38+00:00

I'm an older (early 30's) millennial but I figure with all of the high school and college kids around my story might be useful. My parents have a story book marriage. They met young, married young and have stayed together for 40+ years. They both seem to genuinely still be in love. Most of my family is the same - happily married to their first spouse.

I really don't have a red pill moment per se. Chasing girls has never really been a priority in my life. Once in a while something fell in my lap and I'd date for a bit but I never was willing to turn my life upside down for a woman. They generally got bored and left. It was always more of a relief for me when they did. Not sure if you'd call me asexual or schizoid but I don't crave companionship. I like being alone.

I found MGTOW through anti-feminism. I've always leaned anti-feminist because, well, feminism is stupid but I never really looked around for fellow travelers. As I said, I like being alone. However, I somehow stumbled onto a Karen Straughan video (back when she was still Girl Writes What) and from there found guys like Bar Bar and Stardusk. Once I started listening to them the logic was inescapable. It validated how I had always sort of lived - without the pursuit of female validation. MGTOW has given me the confidence to live my life how I've always wanted.

I've never been happier. I have a great job. I have good friends who I can enjoy the shit I like with. I own my own place. I can do what I want. It's great.

Zegy · 2016-06-08T08:14:56+00:00

I was going to post my long story but I have already done that so if you want to read it then here

https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/4io321/new_to_mgtow_so_heres_a_story/

lost_lurker · 2016-06-08T14:10:27+00:00

(edit, ah shit I'm a millennial not a gen xer.)

I had a pretty good life until about ten when my parents split. After that my dad was gone a lot working as a travelling welder/pipefitter/boilermaker. My mom is a free spirit hippy so I basically had to raise myself after the divorce. Thank goodness I wasn't a party animal because my mom always tried to get me to do crazy shit like meth at 12. Anyways speaking of when I was 12 years old... My dad knocks this chick up, gets his heart broken again has a mental breakdown was convinced that somehow I as a 12 year old knocked up his girlfriend instead and thought that my brother was actually my son...

Everyone else abandons my father but I didn't even though he still accused me of sleeping with his ex. I tried to help him and hang out with him as he slowly fell into alcoholism and paranoia. Eventually things got really bad and he was put into a mental institution for a few months. He got out said he was sorry and that he believed me so I forgave him.

Fast forward a few years and I get my first real girlfriend. Her parents were controlling and didn't allow her to have a phone. So I gave her mine to hide and used another phone to call her on. Long story short she used it to sext a bunch of dudes and then dumped me months later. That was my first love and it didn't get better from there.

Fast forward through a hand full of other shitty relationships and I end up marrying a girl after joining the navy. As soon as we got married shit went downhill. I was absolutely miserable. Treated like crap. Then she wanted a baby and pressures me (emotionally blackmailed me really) into giving her a kid. Six months later she gets pregnant and 9 months after that we had a son. Shit went from bad to horrible. I eventually got cheated on and like the cuck I was I tried to work it out but literally the day she told me "I cheated on you" she said "I'm not happy, I'm not attracted to you anymore, I'm not in love with you anymore and I want a divorce". I was destroyed to say the least.

After getting fucked my whole life I finally felt anger for the first time. I always had suppressed it before like a good little beta but I couldn't hold it back any longer. I went to the internet and stumbled on the red pill. Rejected it at first but swallowed it soon after. Tried to game my wife with limited success then we broke up again. After that I found mgtow and it was like a second red pill. "Why the fuck do I want to be with a woman in the first place".

So here I am, figured out that I wasn't having sex cuz I enjoyed it (don't really like sex that much) I was doing it for the female validation. I never really liked any of my significant others. Did some soul searching and figured out I'm a grey asexual (leans more towards asexual then sexual but not completely without desire). Every once in a while I get lonely but then remember I'm no where near as lonely as I was when I was in any of those shit relationships.

Greetings1 · 2016-06-08T17:34:01+00:00

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Gay4Android · 2016-06-08T20:23:46+00:00

I always had an independent streak but I was a romantic when I was younger. Now I really hope men learn how stupid and damaging it is to think this way. It does not benefit us and breeds generations of men who are enslaved to narcissistic women. http://zaporacle.com/no-tristans-allowed-beyond-this-point-debunking-the-western-myth-of-romantic-love/

jezzzaa · 2016-06-08T22:45:27+00:00

Not much for my story really. Might be TL'DR for some of you, but I hope some of you younger guys take the time to read it. I tried writing it as interesting and fluent as possible and make it personable.

Had three good pals at high school. None of us were ever interested in being part of a popular group (where the whores tended to flock towards). During our 'prom night' none of us went. No interest. We went to the beach instead and raced sand buggies. We used to laugh at the dumb fucks that slavishly done what everybody else were doing. Everyone liked Nirvana, we listened to Marilyn Manson, everyone's favourite movie was <insert generic crap here>, we loved The Crow. Never a pride thing being different, as far as we were concerned, people were stupid and we wanted no part.

Although we all had on-and-off girlfriends, none of us really cared about females that much. It was gym, sports, computer games, beach volley ball and cruising around that kept us busy. Massive gym freaks we were. We all wanted to be professional bodybuilders! Can you imagine.

It changed a bit after our school years. We pretty much all went our separate ways. You know how it is with school friends and the day you finish school. That's pretty much it.

University years came/went and I met someone I really cared for. She was quite a bit older and boy did we have fun. I even thought at one point that I loved her. And upon reflection years later, I did very much. That's until I found out that she had a fiancé. I was disappointed but it taught me a valuable lesson. Life is a fickle bitch. Careful who you trust.

But as the saying goes, fool me once, shame on me, etc etc. I only got fooled once. And it did make me wonder for years and years if that was the point the MGTOW views started creeping in. Or maybe I poured all the love I was ever going to have inside me into that one girl and when the blew up, that was it for me. Used it all up.

Hindsight coupled with a bit of age and wisdom, it's interesting. It weren't just the girl, it was those times more than anything. In my head I made it about her. I needed direction in life. I came out of university, got a job and really thought that was it. Perhaps I felt a bit lost and when I met her she gave me something good to hold on to when I needed it. And when she disappeared out of my life, I had to go out there and find what was good in life for myself and not depend on others. So at one point I was both loudly cursing and silently thanking her.

I guess it just went from there. I taught myself, forced myself with conscious effort to depend only on myself. To blame nobody in the entire universe for my misfortunes but ME. I never specifically taught myself that females were mostly bad news, that I experienced through the experiences of others. Observing time and time again from those that don't seem to learn.

I also bumped into my two friends from high school. After 15 years! Two were divorced with kids, indebted to their eyeballs. One living in shared accommodation, bald and fat, the other past obese and can't work due to depression. The 3rd guy I heard was gay and living in Bermuda! As we sat around at the bar shooting the shit, I really felt sad for these guys. These dudes were giants back in the day. Ready to take the world by storm. Yet they allowed females to break their spirits. They sounded subdued and seemed thankful for scraps.

The next day in the gym as I was getting ready for my final set of dumbbell presses, I reflected back on the night before and a feeling of 'being the last of my kind' came over me. They sold themselves out for a lie and ended up paying for it whilst I still held true to who we once were. I'm still chipping away at The Dream whilst they've just surrendered.

Oh, and a final word on the girl that was once someone I loved. She got married to the guy she cheated on. Divorced a year later. Remarried him, cheated again and divorced again. Got married again to some guy, had two kids, cheated on him and he committed suicide.

She's now grossly obese and living with some fat, short and bald guy. Undoubtedly cheating on him too.

alcockell · 2016-06-08T08:54:06+00:00

OP seems to be living the plot of Paradise By The Dashboard Light.

Saintmyname · 2016-06-09T00:21:10+00:00

I'm 39, in great shape, singled, never been married and never had kids. I'm very happy. I was also raised by a feminist mother and taught to adopt the feminist way of thinking but on a heterosexual scale. I was raised to do my own cleaning, cooking, house work, chores and forced to find employment at 14. Because of this I have never needed a woman for anything. They're a widely available resource. I adopt their slogans to permit my lack of participation in the female dominated world. For example, I refuse LTRs because I don't think women should be trapped in the patriarchal system of marriage. I don't buy women things because I don't want to presuppose they can't buy their own things. I feign ignorance on topics I want to avoid because I'm just a dumb man. I make a great living and am good looking so young women, ever more aggressive as the years go by, hit on me. No man has ever suggested I get married and all women agree I'm not marriage material. Nevertheless I often end up cuckolding men who are marriage material. The beauty of feminism is that it's a diabolical system that is easily used against female greed and for bachelorhood. I implore all of you to apply feminine logic to male dominance. The women have created a blueprint for easy living.

2016-06-08T22:41:29+00:00

I'm gonna dip my toes into this as well. I've also never been married and have kids and I'm in my mid 30s.

My childhood was hit or miss. My dad was never around because he worked a 12 hour night shift job. My mom took care of me and my sister (Beta conditioning commence). I pretty much taught myself everything (how to ride a bike, growing a pair of balls and sticking up for myself etc...). Anyways I was always a geek and an outcast. I never had any luck with the girls at all. I was 17 when I met my first girlfriend. We dated for around 6 months. I had madly fallen in love with her. She was also a virgin and used the religion thing as her excuse for not wanting to fuck. I accepted. She still slobbered on the diddly so I was okay with that. Anyways near the end of our relationship she grew distant, then broke up with me. Turned out she was seeing some other dude behind my back and lost her virginity to him. I was heart broken nonetheless. Fast forward 2 years until I met my second girlfriend. It lasted the same amount only this time I actually finally got to lose my virginity. Same shit happened though. She dumped me for a Chad. Once again heart broken. Anyways. Fast Forward another 4 years (yup remained single all of that time) until I met who I thought was the girl of my dreams. Dated her for over 3 years. We even lived together. She would always bug me about marriage and kids but even before I was fully enveloped into the red pill, I wanted nothing to do with that. She eventually left me because of this and I was once again left heart broken. I found out later she had been cheating on me for the last 6 months of our relationship. Who? Her ex. I pretty much swore off women after that last time but it was another 6 years before I would discover MGTOW and I fully engulfed the red pill.

Yup. Fuck Women.

cynicalsimon · 2016-06-09T05:04:24+00:00

Met a girl. Fell in love or whatever and I was the best be on earth to her. Like an angel but it didn't take long to realize she stopped giving a fuck about me very fast. She gave up and I was used

DrunkWiseman · 2016-06-08T13:27:38+00:00

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Title	Fellow Gen Exers, What's your story? I'll tell you mine if you'll tell me yours! ( could be good for the youngsters)
Author	BeefyPadlock
Upvotes	23
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Date	June 8, 2016 6:08 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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