I noticed with my 2 mates: mate 1 is good looking, strong jaw, workouts etc. mate 2 is below average looks, his jokes are always about insulting other people, don’t workout, known for being dumb and is aggressive as fuck.

But mate 2 just leads for some reason. He insults people but people still follow him, automatically respected to any social group we’ve encountered, no one tries to fuck with his frame except other alphas. Mate 1 tries to joke here in there, has confident too, tries to lead to no avail but even in first impressions I can already see who’s alpha and beta between them 2 and just naturally they hangout with the crowd where mate 1 with the nerds and ugly girls where even ugly girls give him shit tests. Mate 2 with athletes etc.

We are all friends and can get along but what’s the reason? is this just frame and confidence or there is much more to it? I really wanna learn how these work.