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[–]Flat4DIT190 points191 points192 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Ending up alone is a woman's worst fear. Above all else. That is why, they will only leave a relationship once they've secured another.
Never, under any circumstance, be a bitch's backup.
[–]ymaface43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, being single for three years was a great time for me. But referring to the message: don't be anyone's back-up. I think this relates to everyone. It's relevant in relationships/friendships/work. Know your worth :)
[–]ArthurHawk1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why are you here? Why woman came in men's space?
[–]Cyan_Alvein1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMG, what is this bitch doing here?
This is a male only space. You can go everywhere else like r/TwoXChromosomes or r/RedPillWomen but not r/MGTOW
[–]Cave_Creeker16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex wife divorced me with a smile on her face. I remarried 6 months later and it PISSED her off. The guy she ran off with kicked her out. Bet she wanted to come back.
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How's the plantation this time of year?
[–]Cave_Creeker6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣
[–]Chakra_Devourer1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know what piss her off even more? Seeing you living a successful life and being happy. Of course this only works if your current woman is a crazy bitch.
Better be prepared for the worst.
[–]ATTOJ1915 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya cuz that means they have to actually work and make a living!
[–]marioride4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The sexual market place decreases a lot, this behavior is a response of hipergamy. It's a shame that are mens who accept this shit
[–]FoxMcWeezer1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
+1
[–]TexasMilitia125 points126 points127 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Woman has back-up guy: “YOU GO QUEEN! YOU MAKE THE RULES! DEMAND RESPECT! STRONK WOMEN UNITE!”
Guy has a side chick: “ALL MEN ARE CHEATING TRASH PANDAS! DON’T BE SECOND IN ANYONE’S LIFE! DUMP HIS LOW VALUE ASS!”
I’m not even mad anymore. I’m just immune. And tired.
[–]unblackmailable21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Trash pandas ... yeah!
[–]Fragrant_Point6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I laughed at trash panda
[–]Kyxrn3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wonder what these snowflakes are going to feel when we do the exact same thing they do.
[–]Trust_No_Bitches62 points63 points64 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It's not a secret. Women suck at keeping secrets.
They will always talk about that "friend" they want you to compete with who may or may not also be fucking them. And unless he's just the biggest beta in the universe, he'll disappear when she's starts dating you seriously... Only to reappear when she texts him because she needs more attention.
[–]Flugzeug11339 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
God this happened back in the blue pill days for me. Girl I was fucking on tinder had some super beta dude calling her beautiful all the time and being a simp about the entire thing, and she would show me his text messages after they’d hang out.
He’d say something like “I had so much fun today, maybe I’ll finally win that kiss next time!”, meanwhile I was an asshole at the time and she would come over whenever I wanted and would fuck for as long as I wanted. She eventually cut him out and then we started dating. It was awful
[–]Trust_No_Bitches9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tell me about it. When I was dating my ex I knew she had back burner guys and I just didn't care. I didn't really like her at as much as she liked me, and I knew I could get her to dump them if I just kept fucking her and didn't show jealousy.
In the last of my blue pill days, she started messing around with a guy like that simp before I dumped her. She even tried to get me to meet him once and he took off running from me. He was a wimpy little guy that kept buying her gifts and giving her rides.
But she was having him give her rides to my place to be fucked in every hole and then asking to be picked up afterwards for their dates. And I loved this girl but I wasn't submissive to her like that. I was an asshole that refused to let her fuck with me. I dumped her after the sex stopped being fun.
[–]NoobExterminator59 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
cool
[–]astuteglute65 points66 points67 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More publicity the more red pills.
Join us and watch the world burn.
[–]Silva_Shadow49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All these other sub reddits are full of beta boys going around banning anyone that speaks the truth just because it offends them. Thank fuck this subreddit doesn't give a fuck about clowns feelings.
[–][deleted] 41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"It's a well kept secret many women have back-burner guys while they're dating."
Not anymore.
These have been my experiences even from before all this antisocial media exists.
And now it's all out in the open for everybody to see for themselves.
I myself always only sticked dating to 1 woman. When I knew she had several guys talking to her, I just thought the hell with this shit every time. You're either with me or not. They all do it. "Oh he's just a friend" No bitch he wants to get into your pants and you probably already fucked.
See through that bullshit. It's not worth stressing over and it slows you down from your true potential.
[–]nnfl5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s like an open secret that they call you crazy, paranoid, and controlling for noticing.
[–]dooddom99717 points18 points19 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Google this shit and literally the next article ‘I’m Nobody’s Backup Plan - If A Guy Doesn’t Choose Me He’ll Lose Me’
AWALT
Edit: It’s true. Never had a girl leave until she had another lined up.
[–]nnfl1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t keep in contact with my ex, but I do wonder who she had lined up. I wouldn’t want her back in a million years, but there’s still that thought of “which one of you little bastards was it?”
[–]thiszombieoverthere13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
JUST FUCKING STAY AWAY FROM WAHMEN. IF SHE BREATHES, SHE'S A THOT
[–]colttaine13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
👍
[–]P3RF3CT_D3ATH5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just wanted to thank you for all the great work you do in the MGTOW community and the manosphere as a whole.
[–]AskLwsTmh12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not a well kept secret lmao
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"It's a well-kept secret that many women have backburner guys while they're dating."
It really isn't, even before you put that in the byline of an article in whatever shitty publication this sort of thing gets put in.
[–]nnfl1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Talking to some bluepilled guys I know, you’d think it was. That being said, I’m pretty sure Chris Rock did a bit about this in the 90s.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. That standup routine he did back then has aged well. Still relevant, even if Chris Rock isn't it. No idea what he does these days.
[–]geocorb8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The epitome of “ monkey branching”.
Don’t be her backup guy. https://www.boldsky.com/relationship/beyond-love/2016/signs-you-are-her-backup-guy-099797.html
[–]Slitherbee 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A "well kept secret", riiiiight. Thank god for the internet and the online communities, like this one, that have exposed the ugly truths and lies about people, media, government and society in general.
[–]fulgur30005 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"almost relationships" ahahahah
[–]fulgur30004 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good idea, backup hobbies !!
[–]Frankh0764 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s the old dick in a box move... if case of financial emergencies, break glass. No thanks whore, I’ll pass
Chris Rock, yeah?
[–]GerinX3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This supposed writer would so be against the notion of a guy having a back up woman. No doubt about it
[–]silly_birb2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They should start thinking more about backup jobs
[–]MrVinnieVegas2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Smart move?
"You lose, dearie."
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Well-kept secret"
Lol
[–]kubicas2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well kept secret my ass. Not anymore 🤡
[–]odionMGTOW12 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I was a girls back up once too, we had know each other for 2 years and it looked like we would be entering a relationship. Then along comes Chad and they are fucking and dating within 5 minutes, no vetting for Chad only betabill. It took her 5 months to realise she was just a hooker to him that he paid using restaurant outings and during the week days he completely ignored her.
She then tries to rebound with me and text me Happy Christmas (2018) which I laughed at and ignored because the year before that when she was being piped by Chad she never called me. Now this Christmas just gone I found out she has been stalking my social media so I have had to deactivated all my accounts. She is 4 years away from the wall now and getting desperate to find her blue pill cuck.
[–]tacticalinfernape2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well kept secret
bitch. mgtow know every source code.
[–]Profitglutton2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are the biggest creators of MGTOWs.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dual mating strategy exists? I'm shocked 😲
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you love this article you'll love : There’s No Pause Button On My Relationships — If You Need A Break, We’re Done.
[–]Yashugan001 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
women have always had back up guys. it's instinctive behaviour to collect orbiters. she makes herself available so she can choose. it's the selector gender, you need some options to select from first
"well-kept secret" she says.
I thought every female did this anyway?
[–]marioride1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Woman imperative trying to normalize a behavior that exists since ever
[–]DCfueledbyPopeyes1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So brash and ballsy to openly state this. Imagine if the tables were turned.
[–]ayhme1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read the article, such garbage...
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zywIR_ZFLts
[–]Newfers1230 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not so “well-kept” of a secret anymore
Women always leave with a backup. If they ain’t leaving, they ain’t got a backup.
[–]Rottinghere0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At least they're beginning to come out and admit to it.
[–]monk20190 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Its a well kept secret" oh hell it isnt.
[–]RegiusGeralt0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Better Backout of that crap.
[–]NAILmg420 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Responsibility; something best bypassed by maintaining several avenues.
[–]throwawayrf70-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
cranky because you’re a backburner guy aren’t you
[–]U-94-2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being one girl's backup is weak. Being 5 girls' backup is clutch.
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How's the plantation this time of year?
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