I miss trusting people

DangZagnut · 2019-12-14T23:38:06+00:00

Naivety is something you lose to become an adult.

Tuxeyboy1 · 2019-12-15T00:22:37+00:00

Most people can't be trusted. Just the way the world is now. Years ago men used to do business with a handshake. Takes me years to trust people now and I only have a hand full of friends/family I trust. Now we all learned something that some people are so in love with themselves that they don't have the capacity to love anyone else.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2019-12-15T01:04:06+00:00

Weakness invites predation.

Solo_and_Simple · 2019-12-15T02:45:43+00:00

It's unfortunate, but the world is filled with people who are selfish, power-hungry, dishonest, or cruel. You have to learn to protect yourself from them. I have had to learn some hard lessons myself, because I grew up in a nice family. I came out rather naive to the dark side of human nature. Women in particular, I'd say. I was aware that men could be assholes and sociopaths, but I tended to idealize women. Sugar and spice and everything nice; the fairer sex, the gentler sex, the kind/empathic ones. Yeah ... not so. MGTOW has helped a lot with that.

DKN3 · 2019-12-15T01:39:35+00:00

It’s like women have some vendetta on Men, even if you are Married to them, can’t understand why

kdogone · 2019-12-15T00:21:37+00:00

I feel your pain, brother.

Thanks for posting this.

Destrabia · 2019-12-15T10:45:34+00:00

Imagine trusting people in 2019

IkemenKyoushi23 · 2019-12-15T04:06:41+00:00

Trust no soul, except yours.

Kobiperetz · 2019-12-15T00:56:54+00:00

I used to be the most naive kid ever Never got in trouble, was the funniest sweetest kid in my high school. Till I broke up with my gf at 17 y/o then at the prom she beat the shit out of me with her new boyfriend. Well, rip trust I'm almost 28 by now and I will never forget how I felt. Like everything I knew was retarded af

Gingham_Argile · 2019-12-15T04:05:12+00:00

Sometimes when you get a computer virus, it's better to "nuke and pave" the OS. This way you return to a basic semblance of the environment that once was. Then you go about the long process of allowing the base system to update its self for greater stability and protection. Next you find your personal data and restore the programs you need right away, while leaving other programs to be re-installed later, if at all.

For some programs, you might loose the key to unlock the program, these are the programs that keep the process moving so you have to put in a little extra effort. Some keys and data you never get back, but this doesn't stop you from using the computer?

Remember, if you want something you may have to let old things pass away for the glory of what is to come, but cannot yet see. There are are plenty of trustworthy people out here.

When you are ready they will make themselves known to you. This will be the result of them being drawn to the trustworthy part of you that is wiser now.

You had an base OS around trust that worked and now it doesn't? Since you know how to trust people, that's not the broken part. You already know what it is.

Be well.

JohnPettimore · 2019-12-15T05:46:39+00:00

I do, too. I grew up in the same kind of place, with the same kind of people, and I have a hard time with constantly sizing up what someone's really doing.

Crafty-Tackle · 2019-12-15T06:34:28+00:00

Same here. Growing up, I never could have imagined how depraved the world is, in so many different ways.

adamrockblackandblue · 2019-12-15T09:05:05+00:00

Has anything bad ever happened at work and the bosses ask "Who's responsible? Don't worry you're not in trouble." and if you do come forward you get reprimanded or fired? That's my trust thing now at work as anytime I came forward shit went down and when I didn't come forward nothing bad happened. Co-workers and bosses fuck with my trust the most.

rippierippo · 2019-12-15T14:55:28+00:00

Naivety is dangerous. You can afford naivety in child-hood. As an naive adult, it will get you in serious trouble.

Fuxk1n · 2019-12-14T23:38:47+00:00

Same

MrMagtow · 2019-12-15T05:50:03+00:00

OP, you now know about projection. You should learn about gender psychology (most of that is covered in material from the side-bar including the books which introduce you to these concepts).

Finally let me just say that most people are just trying to live their lives as best they can - you cannot expect them to be there for you or help you live yours. Trust yourself and rely on yourself first. Something needs to get done? Do it. Feel like being sad? Jump in the shower and have a cry. Being honest means being honest with yourself - but you need to maintain the fiction that keeps the wheels of society grinding away.

HWGA_Gallifrey · 2019-12-15T15:06:18+00:00

The world is a cold and cruel place that will eat you if it can. You're the master, not the servant...at least until the volcano erupts.

Title	I miss trusting people
Author	Regevent25
Upvotes	162
Comments	36
Date	December 14, 2019 11:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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