I've been browsing this group and I'm shocked. This mindset is not healthy at all. You've been disappointed many times in your life, like everyone else, but that will get better, eventually.

I think what happened to many men on this page has a lot to do with video games and p*rn, because it stopped them from developing social skills, because they got immediate gratification. But you can overcome that. Do not despair. Please, work on yourself, socialize, don't be a "nice guy". It will take time, but it will be worth it.

There's nothing more beautiful than loving a girl who loves you back. It will happen to you one day as well.