Two nights ago I went to a club to test TRP strategies. I joined this community about a month ago. I hadn't fucked anyone in over a year. But this night I pulled a 7/10 ( 24 year-old) in less than an hour. wtf it really is this simple!

What Worked

  • Immediate touch: I grabbed her arm on the dance floor and gave her a compliment. Made it a physical relationship from the start.

  • Pull-push: I made her feel special with the compliment ("I love your headband! I saw you across the room and thought to myself, 'wow, that girl's beautiful. I'm gonna talk to her.'") and then I immediately walked away and danced with a girl nearby.

  • Stayed relax & stoic: I waited a while before approaching her again. No rush. Then when engaging again I spoke calmly and deliberately while keeping strong eye contact. When pauses came, I showed no discomfort. Then she wanted to cater to me. Part of keeping the frame.

  • A few negs: I told her she was terrible at dancing even though she was sexy AF and giving me a halfy.

  • Accidental dread game: A different girl I had danced with weeks ago just happened to approach me while I was talking with this girl. She began hitting on me in front of this girl. I could see my girl fidgeting with her phone and getting anxious.

I told her "You have to come home with me." We end up going to her place and have rough sex. Her body is incredible - 9/10. Lo and behold, she goes wild when I pull her hair and choke her (not too hard). Definitely not what a Nice Guy would do.

Overall: My whole mindset was always keeping frame. I took to heart what MikeHaines recently wrote. I just tried to keep it so that she was entering into my world.

What Went Wrong

I accidentally lost frame the morning after. I reverted to my Nice Guy mentality and didn't want to leave her too soon. She was chatting about her day and her family, so I took interest and asked a bunch of questions. I knew she had to leave fairly early, so I stayed with her for over an hour and took an Uber only once she was ready to leave. The last thing we talked about was a joke about her parents being hung over, so when I texted her later that day (also a beta move) I referred to that. By doing this, I entered her frame and associated myself with nice, comfortable, boring, asexual parts of her life. I no longer was the guy who got her wheels spinning and lifted her into the stand & carry sex position. Now I turned out to be just like every other boring blue pill guy in her eyes, which is why I think she won't text me back and I lost the chance for landing an amazing fuck buddy.

TL;DR

Recently unplugged dude gets laid by keeping frame, starting with touch, being relaxed, and making her feel jealous. Then he loses it the morning by losing frame. Don't forget to keep frame the morning after!

Thanks to everyone here for helping me rediscover my mojo after a year of loneliness and self-doubt!