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| 2 | Monk mode is not isolation. Monk mode is a tool. A tool for transforming pain from an inevitability to a choice.Loved that part. | /r/MGTOW | 18/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 14 | Monk Mode - A 4-Stage PerspectiveYou amuse me with your ignorant comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Mimicry and Internalization. There is a Difference.Mimicry is blindly following advice someone has told you. Internalization is understanding why that someone told you to do that, how and when it works and how you can replicate it according to your personality. When I started with game, like 8 years ago, I was reading this book called "routines manual" from love systems. It is a booklet packed with routines for opening, transitioning, qualification, closing etc. I thought that by memorizing them I would be able to improve my game. Needless to sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/16 07:31 PM |
| 9 | [FR] 1st pull after swallowing TRP: how my frame won & lostShe will text back. Just try and control the frame in the texts. Reduce emoticons to a minimum and be unapologetically direct. Showing a "beta" side every now and then isn't bad because she thinks she can have you. Reverting to dominant behaviors after that confuses her and keeps her engaged. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/16 06:57 PM |
| 157 | It's Meant To Be HardDon't wish it were easier. Wish you were better. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 06:26 PM |
| 2 | If you want a friend get a dog. If you want loyalty get a dog. If you want a chick magnet get a dog. Just get a dog.Dogs aren't loyal by nature. You can only train them to be loyal. If you train your dog to be nice to everyone it will stay loyal to the person who provides food and shelter. That's not a bad thing, but don't confuse loyalty with neediness. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 06:27 PM |
| 14 | I'm not even mad.Long distance relationships will never work. It doesn't matter if you are alpha, beta or something in-between. Your woman will always be on the search for the part she is missing. Women are hard-wired to be dependent. It's not something bad. It is what it is. You can only monitor it and regulate it when you are present. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 06:25 PM |
| -1 | NEVER give a girl an easy outGreat advice! | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Not Sure What to Do In This Specific Social Situation"Ask her to step away from the group and "go outside for some air"?" Don't ask. Change your questions to statements. "Let's go outside for some air." Girls want to be led. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 05:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about girls who "only like black guys" or a specific race?It depends. Race is not your problem. Social status is your problem. If you are a man with high standards you expect the girl you date to have high standards too. You don't care if he is black. If he is Jamie Fox or Drake for instance you would find it intimidating dating her. | /r/seduction | 01/02/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Turning to MGTOW community after bad breakup, searching for answersIt's not going to be easy. It is your fault that you ignored the signs all these years but the best thing you can do is to remove any sense of empathy that you still have for that person. The only way to move forward is to finally realize that you can do better and try and diminish her value as much as possible. It might sound self-degrading because she is the person you spent all these years with but the sooner you realize it is the best way to cure yourself, the better you will feel. You are s… | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/15 11:46 PM |
| 3 | What are your best methods for maintaining attraction?Nevertheless I believe that he still has a chance. Text her and suggest something spontaneous and exciting. Now she expects you to do something in order to recover from the awful night out. And that's normal. Guys act and girls receive. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 08:13 PM |
| 3 | A small rant to extract the positive.I am 29 atm and couldn't really relate to your story because after all these years I managed to get over those issues. But I remember myself facing the same challenges when I was in my early 20s. So keep that in mind. What you feel now is natural. Don't fight it. Enjoy it. Start acting and knowledge and experience will accumulate to a point where all those problems will seem trivial. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 08:03 PM |
| -2 | What are your best methods for maintaining attraction?He said that there was a make out in the first date but I agree if you haven't escalated sexually with her till the third date you are doing something very wrong. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 07:53 PM |
| 8 | A small rant to extract the positive.Next time just do it. Smile, keep eye contact, say hi and start talking about random shit. She might sense that you are anxious but IT DOESN'T MATTER. After one minute you'll calm down and she will feel that too. Before you'll leave ask for her number. The ecstasy you'll experience after succeeding is priceless. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Dear Seddit. Take This Free Daygame Book. It took me two months to write it. And I teach daygame full time. It's good.That's good stuff. I read Tony's book a few months ago and it has great stories in it. A lot of great game related gems inside. Especially subtle ones. I personally find it easier to learn and get inspired by personal stories than raw advice. | /r/seduction | 19/11/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | How to become a better conversationalist?I have a great system for that. I like to call it the “WWBLI” system and it is founded upon the following four pillars: * Whatever you have to say has value purely because it comes from you. * Whatever you have to say is interesting purely because others want to know what you find interesting. * Be in the moment; don’t think ahead. * Lower your standards of what’s good enough to say. * It’s not what you say, it is the energy behind how you say it. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 04:29 PM |
| 13 | The Problem Is Not That Others Don't Get You. The Problem Is Your Perception.I explain that in the paragraphs above: If I am offended by her, it is important to understand that I am actually offended by what I did with her words based on how I made meaning out of them. In essence, I am offended by her-in-me. Not by her, the real person. I can never experience her, the real person, directly. In essence, I am offended by this person that I have made a part of me by the way I perceive her. In the end, I am offended by none other than myself. In short, it is not what people … | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 07:28 PM |
| 8 | The Problem Is Not That Others Don't Get You. The Problem Is Your Perception.I think that PUAs where discussing reframing as a tool to deal with shit tests and they didn't emphasize that much on the power of reframing as a tool to change your perspective. Nevertheless it is very critical when it comes to seduction because it can help you deal with rejection and self-blame. | /r/seduction | 22/09/15 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Rollo Tomassi in Vegas – Man in Demand ConferenceHope this is just the beginning. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 03:57 PM |
| 6 | I'm on fire guys. I'm on fireDifficulty is what wakes up the genius. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 03:55 PM |
| 2 | 50 Takeaways from ModelsMark Manson is an incredible author. Check out his blog to understand the evolution of his perspective beyond models. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How to be UnforgettableTotally agree. The purpose of the article was to emphasize the importance of enthusiasm and how it can help you stand out. A certain degree of social intelligence is obviously required in order to help you calibrate the situation. But we touch on social intelligence in numerous other articles. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 07:20 PM |
| 15 | How to be UnforgettableNot snarky at all. Your summary was to the point. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 06:14 PM |
| 28 | How to be UnforgettableWell summarized. I would just add that the delivery is more important than the message. | /r/seduction | 23/07/15 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Here's a great video for you guys that need a little help on the dance floor like myself!use the claw | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Daygame outside the USAIf you go to Oxford Street in London you will find within an hour at least 10 people practicing cold approach. You probably don't know stories of people who have started a relationship through cold approach because your social circle is not into game. I would suggest to get to know people who are practicing game and go out together. | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 02:33 PM |
| 46 | If you're going to approach, do it immediatelyDon't give a fuck about what other people say. Better to approach girls who check you out because you minimize the risk of getting rejected. Approach immediately as you said. Keep it short and to the point. Optional but extremely effective - Try to build some social momentum in advance by talking to people you already know or cashiers, baristas etc. | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 02:28 PM |
| 21 | On the Folly of Mistaking a Throne for an Army.There comes a time in every Man’s life, when frustration starts to dominate every aspect of your reality. You start questioning yourself, your choices, your ideals and even your own existence. You start feeling lost, without even the slightest sense of direction and your understanding of what matters and what doesn’t, starts fading away along with your dreams and aspirations. This was my reality a few years ago and this is the constant reality of many men I know and interact with. It comes from … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 01:15 PM |
| 1 | If you ask a girl for her number, and she doesn't give it to you. Is there a way to follow up and increase your chances a second time?Well it's not as simple as it seems. There are numerous factors that affect her decision and what I am suggesting is definitely not a solution. I would advice you to evaluate yourself and your behavior before digging into those type of questions. Are you aware of your value as a man and how this is communicated to your environment? If you understand your value so will she. If not then you need to work on specific areas of your self that will increase your value. After you do so the numbers will … | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | If you ask a girl for her number, and she doesn't give it to you. Is there a way to follow up and increase your chances a second time?This one seems counter-intuitive, but the reality about women’s attraction to a man is that it is not persistent. This means that a man can create it and destroy it. When a man initiates and pursues, she might not be attracted or interested to start out with. Because of this, she might reject him, even if ever so politely. Once he accepts this rejection and brushes it off, however, he shows a lack of neediness. This lack of neediness, combined with the perceived “opportunity lost” phenomenon, wi… | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:04 PM |
| 20 | The problem with dating appsIMHO you can't score better than a 6-7 on Tinder even if you are good looking and have game. It's not difficult to understand that beautiful girls have many options, which means they don't rely on tinder to find someone. Same applies to guys with game. They feel so comfortable meeting women in the "real world" that they don't really need tinder. Tinder is the lazy guy's cure. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Seddit listen up. Relationships are hard work. If you are not ready to work hard then don't start one.thank you. :) I love it too. People here need to be aware of the whole journey, not just the beginning. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Seddit listen up. Relationships are hard work. If you are not ready to work hard then don't start one.That's a very mature and responsible perspective. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 03:24 PM |
| 11 | Seddit listen up. Relationships are hard work. If you are not ready to work hard then don't start one.Just bear in mind that I am not trying to put all the responsibility on you. You don't need to accuse yourself of your feelings. I am just trying to raise awareness. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 03:22 PM |
| 3 | FR. AWALT.You have a bright future ahead of you son! #proudasfuck | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Life Is a Game. This Is Your Strategy Guide.To which Buffett replied: “No. You’ve got it wrong, Mike. Everything you didn’t highlight just became your Avoid-At-All-Cost list. No matter what, these things get no attention from you until you’ve succeeded with your top 5.” | /r/seduction | 30/03/15 06:32 PM |
| 18 | My very first success and the most importing thing I learned so farToo much analysis paralyzes action. Keep having the "Always assume that she likes you" mindset and things will keep improving. It is also important to embrace the "Always assume comfort" mindset. | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 05:23 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when your job kills your game?Why don't you try daygame? | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Machiavellian Thinking vs. Conventional Logic.I would pay a really good fee to have your concepts in a book. It will be the bible of influence, power and masculine self-growth. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Some Thoughts on the Relationship between Intimacy and Eroticismtotally agree. With regards to the long distance LTR however I can tell you from first hand that it can't work. I've tried it a couple of times and it leads to lack of trust and you will never feel sure about the other person. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 06:27 PM |
| 2 | How to Become More Intimate With Women through Honesty - 6 Steps to Develop an Honest MentalityWell the main idea behind honesty is not to conceal your intentions. Being honest both to yourself and your surroundings is a very attractive trait because it communicates: Authenticity Confidence Self-Reliance Ballsiness | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Reading TRP makes me depressed, if it's the truth then it makes me hate everyone.Incredibly insightful comment. Thanks for all the contributions IllimitableMan. Since we are discussing compassion, it feels good to read a comment from you that has a more warm tone rather than the usual assertive/aggressive one. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | When Women Have a Taste of Their Own Medicine.Oh man this is exactly what I am thinking. Do you think it is a matter of intellect and how emotionally intelligent you are? Have you met any women who have managed to achieve such a thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | When Women Have a Taste of Their Own Medicine.Incredibly insightful comment and great metaphor. Thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:11 AM |
| 5 | When Women Have a Taste of Their Own Medicine.I wish it was easier than that but it is the way you describe it. I used to think that my girl is a unicorn but the more you get to know a woman the more you see red pill truths even in women who are investing in themselves mentally and try to move away from social norms. The answer I cannot be sure of is for long can a man last. That's why I usually suggest my friends to get into a LTR at a later stage of their lives and with a woman >25. Because the more they grow old the more they have invest… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 05:33 PM |
| 13 | When Women Have a Taste of Their Own Medicine.Yeah you are right. I just felt bad because I tried to make her feel better and she didn't appreciate it. So I wanted to make clear to her that I won't put up with this behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 04:59 PM |
| 40 | Enough's Enough "Asian Men Have it Hardest/Race Traitors threads" = Instaban. Man the fuck up pussy.Listening to Asian men whining about being Asian and all the problems that arise from that is like listening to a bald guy whining about being bald. The way I would suggest the bald guy to look up to guys like Jason Statham or Bruce Willis, the same way my best advice for Asian men who struggle with defining their identity in western society is to look up to successful asian men who have managed to build a great image for themselves. My best friend is Vietnamese born in the States and gets pussy… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Cute Romanian GirlI don't really like generalizing but from my experience Romanian girls are very open minded and friendly. Ask for her number next time and things will flow naturally. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 04:20 PM |
| 5 | 8 Golden Social Dynamics Rules That Affect More Than 90% Of Your Success When Interacting With WomenSometimes certain social conventions need to be reestablished in order to move forward and rejection is one of them. | /r/seduction | 20/11/14 06:40 PM |
| 0 | F20 in real need of your adviceLook. We have been discussing this problem in this subreddit a lot. Bitter truth is that a man needs to always make the first move because it demonstrates leadership, which is a huge attraction spike. When you are in a serious relationship though me, becomes we. Yes you still need to be alpha and take initiative but if your female partner is expecting everything from you than things start to get weird. Try to understand that pleasing your partner is an essential element of a healthy monogamous r… | /r/seduction | 09/10/14 01:38 PM |
| 33 | Easy and effective openerThanks a lot man! That's a solid one. You can actually use it in any social gathering. I just used it at work to meet a cute girl I didn't know how to introduce myself to. worked like a charm. | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I think it is time to start endorsing your top contributors.Love the answer. Very insightful and you are raising the right concerns here. What I have learned however through all these years interacting with different people with different level of game, the guys who really know their shit can give you insightful answers for almost any situation. It is true however that we need to be very specific about the criteria that apply to Endorsed members. And this is one of the reasons I wanted to start this discussion. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I think it is time to start endorsing your top contributors.I understand your concern but I don't think that the equality of this subreddit will be jeopardized by such a change. Quite the contrary actually. What I am aiming for here is to raise the bar and give some people the exposure and recognition they truly deserve. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 04:37 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Upcoming AMA with Vadim from HonestSignalz on Tuesday, September 30th at 12pm PST.Yeah! Bring it on! | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 11:11 AM |
| 3 | The 30 day challenge and why you should do it.Couldn't agree more. Guys please don't focus only on the approach. Yes these type of challenges help you work on your AA and everything but will only get you so far. I know people who have done 1000 approaches and haven't even kissed a girl. Be smart about the way seduction works and stop using outdated methods to improve your Game. There is also a great guide on AA here. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 09:13 PM |
| 1 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartI agree with the comments the guys made. You can say thank you and acknowledge the compliment but I also feel that you answered your own question. when I was in the course, I found it difficult and had to study a lot - only after gaining experience does it seem simple and basic now. This is an amazing response. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Homeless Guy Survives In NYC By Picking Up Women Every NightIt's abstract man. You cannot define it. Anyway, all joking aside he just doesn't want to work and he found a way to live a lifestyle he enjoys (drinks, drugs etc) just by being a homeless. Obviously this won't last long but for now he is doing fine. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Homeless Guy Survives In NYC By Picking Up Women Every NightThis abstract lifestyle is not for everybody. And I am pretty sure that if you look around you at the fucking hundreds of thousands of homeless people in NY, I am the only one that can pull this shit off. For me, this is the moral of the story. Whatever you decide to do in life make sure it fits your personality. Or at least have the balls to pursue it until it feels like a natural way of living. | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Red Pillers, what are some concepts from TRP that you reject?amen brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/14 08:54 AM |
| 1 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartWell you are opening a huge case here. It's not solely a desire for narcissism. IMHO it's more a mixture of desire for acceptance, recognition and consequently power. They all derive from the primitive part of our brains that is essential in order to empower our survival mechanisms. In our modern society, we usually get carried away and think that all these terms are essential components of our recipe for a happy life. If you think about it carefully though, most of the so called self-actualized… | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 08:50 AM |
| 1 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a Braggartepic | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 07:55 AM |
| 1 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartDon't get confused here. Brad is a person who accomplished many things in his life. Like many of us who want to invest in ourselves, he wanted to always learn more and more so he can expand his horizons and move beyond conventional way of thinking. What he realized along the way though was that knowledge and status sometimes can have the exact opposite effect on us. When we start getting compliments and people respect us, we somehow become narcissistic and and get blinded by our success. The mos… | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 07:53 AM |
| 3 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartDon't worry, it confuses a lot of people. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 03:27 PM |
| 8 | The Difference between a Confident Man and a Show-Off – 10 Ways to share your Accomplishments without coming across as a BraggartThanks man. It's self-deprecating not self-depreciating. | /r/seduction | 15/09/14 03:07 PM |
| 12 | Going on a date with a girl I really like(Don't hate me for this). Advice on conversational templates and general tips?Don't read too much because you will get information overload and you will be too caught up in your head. Some quick but important fixes you can do are: Keep eye contact. Have a deep tonality. Keep a straight posture. Don't talk about the weather, religion, deaths, problems in your life. Lead the conversation but also listen and use pauses as you talk. Focus on KINO! Start small (touching shoulder etc) and keep touching throughout the conversation so you can build sexual tension. If you don't kn… | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Would you be interested in an AMA with Honest Signalz?Hell yeah. For those who don't know him, here are some chat up lines he uses that convinced me he is the SHIT: My lovemaking is confused for earthquakes At museums I am sometimes allowed to touch the art I once played a game of Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun and won Raul Castro himself sent me this cigar. He said, you are a friend of Cuba, a friend of the Revolution, you are a friend of mine. I am the most interesting man in the world but you can also call me Vadim. My legend precedes … | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 12:21 PM |
| 7 | Dominant in big groups. Quiet and reserved in small groups. Anyone else?Meditation is always helpful but you should also understand the dynamics here. You are obviously a person that knows how to have fun when the energy is high. Situations similar to the ones you are describing are causing you to feel alienated and disconnected. There are two ways to go here: Try to avoid these type of meetups as much as you can. Step up your game and challenge yourself to learn the rules of the low-energy game type. Let me expand on the second point. Low energy environments are mo… | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 11:48 AM |
| 3 | MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket..Thanks guys! I like them both! | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 05:02 PM |
| 37 | MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket..Thanks man. I am really looking forward to the date. Never dated a cop before.. | /r/seduction | 13/08/14 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoned a girl for another, now regretting decision. What should I do?Man you are overthinking. Read this article, it will help you. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoned a girl for another, now regretting decision. What should I do?No it doesn't sound weird at all. She just got jealous and started liking you. The thing is that now that the friend broke up with you and not you with the friend she might have lost some of the attraction. The best thing would have been to hit on her while dating the friend. Now things are a bit more risky bust still if you behave like i told you in the last message chances are she will give in. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoned a girl for another, now regretting decision. What should I do?I just want you to understand the dynamics here. Imagine a value-bar next to you that goes up and down every time you make alpha and beta moves respectively. Now your value bar is somewhere in the middle. The girl probably still likes you but you need to be careful not to act self-consciously. Express yourself in the party this weekend but act like a man. Don't overanalyze the situation. Tell her that you like her, grab her by the hand (shows leadership), isolate her and start making out. Simple… | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Friendzoned a girl for another, now regretting decision. What should I do?Nice. Now things start to make more sense. Yeah I guess she used to like you but after you started dating her friend she started liking you even more. Did you break up with the friend or did she break up with you? | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:27 PM |
| 2 | 6 First Date Tips That Are Actually UsefulIs this your response to this? Good advice btw! | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Friendzoned a girl for another, now regretting decision. What should I do?Give us some more details. Did she use to like you but you were beta and you couldn't figure out or did she started liking you after you started dating her friend? | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Do men shit test?Hahaha.. Totally get you. Rockers usually know the way | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Do men shit test?Based on my experience, I would put it this way. A shit test is a way of challenging someone in order to figure out if this someone is 1."appropriate" for your value 2. worth your trust. The first one usually applies to situations where you don't know the girl and you want to make her yours. From my experience, a guy would apply shit testing on a woman only if he comes from a place of abundance. He would shit test her to see if she is "appropriate" for his value and at the same time better than … | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 05:07 PM |
| 2 | The great Seducers of Westeros. Which one are you?Don't know why but only Tyrion had this problem. It is fixed now. You can check it out. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 06:25 PM |
| 6 | The great Seducers of Westeros. Which one are you?1) He is not a man. 2) He is not a great seducer. 3) He is a little bitch. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever paid for RSD services? Opinions?It's true that they charge a lot but the demand dictates the price. I totally agree with you that the best way to learn is by yourself and by finding similar-minded guys but at the same time its not that easy. I found one of my best pickup-buddies in a bootcamp we did together and the reason was that we went through the same shit. This created an extremely strong bond. A bond that I found really difficult to achieve with guys I met in lair meetups and other events. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever paid for RSD services? Opinions?PuaCurveBall is right. There is no need to buy a product since there are tons of free stuff out there. I would only suggest a product that can help you commit to a strict schedule in exchange for a monthly fee (financial commitment keeps you motivated). With regards to the in-field coaching you mention, I've done it in the past (not with RSD) and I would definitely suggest it for one important reason: It accelerates the learning curve. Yes you can try alone but you will learn at least 10x faster… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 07:02 PM |
| 3 | getting worked by a PUA and frusterated as all... help!Well it depends. There are actually two cases. 1) He really likes you but he plays you really well so you can get obsessed over him. 2) He just likes you but he also has an abundance of other choices. Which means that you are just one of the many girls he is dating. In both cases I would suggest the following: Never show neediness Try and be sexual and always satisfy him in bed Keep some distance and let him chase you (don't make yourself available every time he calls you) These are the the only… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 06:15 PM |
| 4 | getting worked by a PUA and frusterated as all... help!He is playing you really well actually. If he is that good there is not much you can do. Just play along and enjoy the ride.. | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Noticed im not the same around girls when dating as compared to when I gamed them.Game doesn't stop when you enter a new relationship. Quite the contrary actually. Some would argue that that's when the real game begins. During a relationship, the girl will increase the amount of shit tests in order to justify her decision to be with you. Have one very important thing in mind. All women are hypergamous. This means that they will always seek a male mate that has higher value than them. If you want to be this male you need to control the frame at all times during a relationship.… | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls at the gym.You are absolutely right. It's that I am generally very unstifled and I can open with anything. I don't usually like mocking people but if you visit the gym regularly you know what i am talking about. | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Girls at the gym.You can use any "situational opener" you like. This was an example. | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 01:19 PM |
| -3 | Girls at the gym.The secret to approaching girls in the gym without the danger of coming across as a creepy dude is to take advantage of the environment. What do I mean by that. I am pretty sure that most of you already know that girls are attracted to you when you are on state. Gym is the perfect environment to get on state mainly for 3 reasons. 1. You are listening to music that pumps you up 2. You are usually with your buddies 3. When you work out you are usually in a meditative state which makes you more pre… | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 11:17 AM |
| 7 | What's your "niche" and how do you adjust your game accordingly? I'll start.I like non-educated gingers in their early 30s. They are usually divorced with a kid. Common occupations include: nurses kindergarden teachers stewardesses and cashiers in sex shops. They have extremely low self esteem but they fuck like hipsters. You will most probably meet them at: casinos dog parks home depot planes and of course sex shops Most successful PUA routines to use on them include: The cube My ex-girlfriend is stalking me Start a band What to buy for my little sister Masturbate in t… | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Trying to find the best ways to practically embrace the "Power of Now" in your everyday life - LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORSYeah I get the idea. Usually we are trapped in the past and the future. Now is not an option for us. Just a very complicated mixture of past and future thoughts. Why washing hands? I've heard about washing dishes but never hands. Do you want to share your thoughts? | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Building a powerful identity has always been one of the most challenging areas of seduction. I have listed the 6 most important steps you need to take in order to start building one. What do you guys think?Maybe I wasn't clear enough. Eliminate Self-consciousness = stop feeling self-conscious, stop feeling weird about yourself and your appearance. Be conscious of your every move and action = be self-aware, have a solid understanding about who you are and how you relate to the world. Hope that helps. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 07:02 PM |
| -1 | My Response to the "Presenting the 10 most powerful Physical Escalation (KINO) Techniques" post comments and a HUGE thank you to all the supporters!!What part of the: " I am trying to find people from seddit to contribute to my blog " you don't understand? If you could suppress your ego a bit you could understand that there are people here that actually give a fuck about this. There are tons of blogs where you can find articles similar to the ones I write. But none of them are interactive. It is a new way to approach things and some people want to embrace it. easy as that. Thanks for the feedback by the way. | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Presenting the 10 most powerful Physical Escalation (KINO) Techniques - Completed with the precious help of fellow sedditors! - Thank you guys!Gold indeed! Big thanks to ZackFair who mentioned it! | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 06:18 PM |
| -9 | Presenting the 10 most powerful Physical Escalation (KINO) Techniques - Completed with the precious help of fellow sedditors! - Thank you guys!No not really. But I use this service --> https://getpocket.com/ to save my favorite articles. Definitely a must. ;) | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 04:42 PM |
| -6 | Presenting the 10 most powerful Physical Escalation (KINO) Techniques - Completed with the precious help of fellow sedditors! - Thank you guys!More articles like this will follow and most of them are going to be drafted with the help of fellow sedditors! One of them has also accepted my offer and he will be a posting his own articles on a weekly basis. Stay tuned! ;) | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 04:09 PM |
| -3 | Presenting the 10 most powerful Physical Escalation (KINO) Techniques - Completed with the precious help of fellow sedditors! - Thank you guys!There is still room for improvement in the article, so if you guys have anything you would like to add you are more than welcome to do so. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | THE 80/20 RULE APPLIED TO KINO. LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORS!Great point! I will definitely add it! Thank you! | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | THE 80/20 RULE APPLIED TO KINO. LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORS!Thanks for the comments guys, much appreciated! With regards to Tyler, I have been following RSD since 2011. Hands down they are the most high quality seduction coaches out there. A good 70% of the knowledge I have in pickup is because of them. Most of the realizations I have had about seduction and life in general, I have seen RSD talking about them in their videos. Videos like this from Jeffy and this from Tyler is what makes them so unique and shows that they have managed to develop traits th… | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 05:20 PM |
| 1 | THE 80/20 RULE APPLIED TO KINO. LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORS!Great stuff man! Thanks for contributing! Will definitely use the info! | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | THE 80/20 RULE APPLIED TO KINO. LOOKING FOR CONTRIBUTORS!The trick with the thumb is gold. Thanks mate! | /r/seduction | 03/05/14 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Go MetaI LOVE IT. I would call the whole package META-seduction. It is for very experience players who have reached the NEXT/META level. I agree that self-awareness in every aspect of the game, summarizes the META principle. It is like having intuition in your life. Being able to predict outcomes just by observing your environment. Well said! | /r/seduction | 25/04/14 05:57 PM |
| 4 | How do you transition from friendly flirting to sexual flirting?THIS and: -move closer to her -deepen your voice -look her deep in the eyes - DONT lose eye contact -go for the kiss -everyone is happy Andrian | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle irrational jealousy?1.MEDITATION 2.ABUNDANCE IN WOMEN 3.If none of the above works, HOOKERS Andrian | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 07:40 PM |
| 2 | What are some things on this subreddit I probably haven't seen before?I mainly write for beginners so I know what you mean. If you want more advanced stuff I would suggest the blog of Rollo Tomassi - The Rational Male. The guy is a BOSS. Check out his recent AMA on the redpill here Cheers Andrian | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 11:03 AM |
| 14 | Wanted to thank youProps 1. BECAUSE YOU ARE A BOSS FOR DOING THE TRY THE DRINK MOVE! Props 2. BECAUSE WE LOVE GINGERS! Well played mate! haha Andrian | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 10:54 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you start feeling yourself getting in your head/self-analyzing?Perfect timing. I wrote an article on this on Monday. Check it out here. ;) Andrian | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The most important part of seductionThat is so true. GO OUT AND TAKE MASSIVE ACTION! | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Sex on lads holiday?Hey man! Been there done that. Well I will be honest with you. Faliraki is one of the trashiest places on earth. It is where young Brits go to destroy everything. I have 2 points to make: -If you want to go there you need to be an extremely high energy person. If you are experienced in the area of seduction you will get laid every night. You just need to use the CLAW wherever you go and the girls will come to you without resistance. But don't expect classy girls. Most of them are trashy as fuck.… | /r/seduction | 16/04/14 10:20 AM |
| 1 | How to cut through mixed signs from a first date? What's the bottom line?Well at this point there is not much you can do. In order to stop being nice you need to change your mentality in general. I used to be like this. I thought that if I would say something cocky the girl will feel uncomfortable. What I couldn't understand is that as long as you control the frame of the conversation anything you say will work. That is the reason I mention assertiveness. Because an assertive frame is extremely powerful and every girl is attracted to it. Now for the next date I would… | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Being Forward Over Text?PuaCurveBall's answer is spot on! Keep the status quo! The "Come round mine tomorrow evening, I owe you that drink. Bring a helmet, I think it may blow your mind." text shows that you are trying hard. Use this text only if your discussion was in the same funny vibe. Since you are into RSD check out what Julien says. Don't get stuck in the "I need to create more attraction" frame. Andrian | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How to cut through mixed signs from a first date? What's the bottom line?Hey man. What I understand from the way you described the date is one thing: -You are being waaay to NICE! You need to understand something very important! Girls don't like nice guys! You can be a nice guy only if you can pepper it with some asshole attributes! -Tease her -Touch her -Be assertive The fact that she decided to go out with you on a date, especially if you have met on tinder, means that she is up for it. Stop wasting time overthinking. It's obvious that she likes you. If you want ch… | /r/seduction | 15/04/14 09:39 AM |
| 11 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?Dude I can't lie to you. It's gonna be tough for at least a month. You won't be able to get over it in less than that. So during that period try and do stuff that will not remind you of her. Like, hang out with your buddies, do some sports, try and see other girls etc. VERY IMPORTANT: If you want to win her back, during the period of this month NEVER call her or text her. NEVER. After that period start investing in yourself. A lot. If you wanna go out with her do it. But make her understand that… | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 01:44 PM |
| 1 | getting a girl 1 on 1It depends. I use a mix of both. I try to escalate sexually the moment I make the approach if the energy of the environment is (high e.g. nightclub). When a girl is checking me out I usually go direct though. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 03:51 PM |
| 1 | 3 tips before you die*LEARN AS IF YOU'LL LIVE FOREVER *THERE ARE NO MISTAKES JUST LESSONS *ENJOY THE RIDE ;) | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 02:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] had a decent night out clubbing with some positive results. But still need to improveIn high energy clubs I am doing it with my friends the whole time. It is the most amazing move. I forgot to thank you for the "we should kiss and see what happens" tip. This is an amazing response to the I am older than you shit test. | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 02:20 PM |
| 2 | getting a girl 1 on 1I always had this problem and I still do. I try not to approach groups because they are quite difficult to handle especially when they include guys and fatties. I usually don't even bother. However if you still want to do it, one of my coaches suggested the following: Go DIRECT. Approach the girl and then address the group by saying: "Guys I am sorry to interrupt but your friend is gorgeous. I had to come over and meet her. Hope you don't mind if I borrow her for 5'." Smile, wink and isolate her… | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 01:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] had a decent night out clubbing with some positive results. But still need to improvehahahaha. Dude your FR was epic. I loved the "bit my tongue" part! hahahahah. Yeah that's true. You need to be direct and have great energy. Have you ever tried the claw? it always works in nightclubs. Andrian | /r/seduction | 13/04/14 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How to get over the hump?SneakyGary's answer was spot on. If you don't get physical you will keep "waiting" for something. Stop thinking of social pressure. It doesnt help. If you don't feel comfortable with touching in general, start small and then build up. By small I mean: -High five -Tap on shoulder or sth similar If you start feeling comfortable with those two moves, move on to more "advanced" ones like: -Hug -The claw -Hug and Lift up -Raise her chin -Touch her hair Try them out! ;) Andrian | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How to start? [newbie questions]Just by going out and approaching girls without a strategy won't work. Consistency is definitely a key but you also need to know what you are doing. What you need to do is find your personal style and start building on it. For me there are three areas that you need to definitely work on before and while building your seductive personality: 1)Body Language-Tonality-Eye contact 2)Emotional state - being able to drain good emotional state from within without being affected by your external environm… | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 07:30 PM |
| -1 | How being a short guy affect my dating life?Bro relax. There is no reason to get so emotional. YOU think that height will hold you back in life. I don't. You say: "he is at a disadvantage, and to theorize on ways to overcome that disadvantage." I say: "if he thinks that height is a disadvantage, he will be consuming creative energy to overcome that thought." He shouldn't even been thinking about that. He should just focus on ways to build a seductive personality. Simple as that. With regards to the spamming comment, I am not spamming at a… | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 05:23 PM |
| 0 | What do I do after I get her number?Check out RSD TEXT game facebook group here --> https://www.facebook.com/groups/rsdtextonlinegame/?fref=ts They have amazing advice and you can even ask them questions. Andrian | http://thequintessentialman.com/ | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:26 PM |
| -3 | How being a short guy affect my dating life?This is just a limiting belief you have. One of my best friends is even shorter than you. He has fucked more than 100 girls. The guy is a boss. You know why? BECAUSE HE DOESNT CARE. He is sexy just by being confident and awesome. Stop wasting your thoughts in this stupid belief. Suggested solutions: -Meditation - in order to control your mind and stop wasting time on stupid thoughts -Coaching - the coach will help you a lot to overcome this limiting belief -Extra material check this guy out he i… | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I am a pussy..advice would be appreciated.Bro the same thing happened to me last week at starbucks but it was with the cashier. She was extremely hot, checking me out the whole time but I pussied out two days in a row. I couldnt stop thinking about her. The third day I was like, fuck this I am gonna talk to her. So I just smiled kept rock solid eye contact and said hi. You know what happened? She smiled back and attraction started sparking. I asked her something like "I will try and be healthy today, which one is your favorite smoothie?… | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 10:50 AM |
| 0 | Eye contact while passing by on the streetMan stop overthinking. Strong eye contact is a demonstration of: Confidence-Dominance-Interest. It is a very attractive trait. Stop thinking that they are men. What's the worst think that can happen? They will probably get intimidated by you. ;) I write about eye contact in my article here --> http://thequintessentialman.com/5-powerful-tips-dramatically-improve-body-language-eye-contact-tonality/ check it out | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 06:40 PM |
| 6 | [FR] College Daytime Approach, #-CloseGood job man. These small boosts of confidence are so important to keep you going! Live it up! ;) | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Looking Good, Feeling Great, Becoming AmazingWith regards to colognes, your choices are great and would add TOM FORD NOIR and ARMANI CODE to the list. When you ask for a woman's opinion about your cologne's try and go for extreme reactions. You should aim for responses like: "WOW its Amazing" or "I don't like it all". NEVER settle for the "it's ok" comment. It means that your perfume is average and unconsciously the girl puts you on the average-men-list. Andrian | http://thequintessentialman.com/ | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Thank you SEDDITHi Alex! Good Job man! Keep sharing and evolving! Can you send me a link to your blog please. Andrian | http://thequintessentialman.com/ | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I can approach women. I can start conversations. But I can't make a good one...Hey bro. Sorry for the late response. I just saw the message. 1)First of all stop blaming yourself for things you do or things that happen in your life. Nobody became an expert in anything overnight. Embrace the process in everything you do. There are no mistakes just lessons. :) 2) A great lesson that I learned and helped me create good energy with girls is this one: With every girl that I meet, the moment I meet them, I assume 2 things: 1.COMFORT 2.ATTRACTION If these two things are establishe… | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 02:21 PM |
| 3 | I can approach women. I can start conversations. But I can't make a good one...The main pillars of meaningful and powerful conversations are: Confidence – story telling – humor Develop these 3 traits and you will become a conversation-master. Also, if you have a problem talking without the other person responding to you, everything you need is here --> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qsaxJCvahA cheers Andrian | www.thequintessentialman.com | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I've noticed that since I've started approaching I find myself thinking that I'm "superior" to other guysbro you don't need to stop it. This is your competitive advantage now. Use it as a tool. I suggest, if you feel ready, you should start teaching guys in your social circle what you have learned from the seduction community. You will reverse the feeling that you feel now. You will start feeling powerful and awesome but in more purposeful way. ;) Andrian | www.thequintessentialman.com | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:20 PM |
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