She got laid off in March. Shes become a little depressed.

She used to go to the the gym frequently. She goes maybe 1-2x a week now.

She’s still in better shape than most women our age. Early 30s though.

I’ve told her she’s gained weight. She wants to lose it.

She follows my lead with everything. If I tell her to drop to her knees she doesn’t hesitate. But I don’t have the energy to keep pushing her to go to the gym and quit eating shit.