How would you tell a girl “friend” that you want to fuck, but still be cool? AND HOW DO YOU PREVENT ANY ENTERING OF “FRIEND” FOREVER ON?

vandaalen · 2020-05-02T16:59:17+00:00

how do I tell them I want to fuck?

the naked man. it works two out of three times.

comcain · 2020-05-02T18:01:33+00:00

Even 10/10s want to get laid. Add a little alcohol and by golly it happens. Don't be so quick to write yourself off.

Cheers

comcain · 2020-05-02T17:18:57+00:00

Once you withdraw attention from them, particularly orbiting attention, you'd be surprised how many of them are DTF.

You don't say "I want to fuck you". It's a dance. If you're too pushy, you'll trigger Anti Slut Defense and she'll say, "I'm not that kind of girl!". But she is that kind of girl. You have to give her time for her body to remind her mind that she indeed is DTF. That's seduction.

Cheers

IXseed · 2020-05-02T16:24:37+00:00

Flip the chess board.

With these girls and with girls you're into from now on, you need to let the know from the jump what the game is. I can't give you lines on how to word it, it has to come from you. But you need to let them know how you're down to kick it with them but sex WILL be involved. Either she's down or she's not.

Brztr · 2020-05-02T16:25:37+00:00

you don't tell her.. you show her

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-05-02T17:38:20+00:00

How good looking are you? You say some of them are 10/10, so unless you are too (or are at least close), then it ain't going to happen my man.

WheresDaLeek · 2020-05-02T23:36:04+00:00

[Late] I would tell you tell her straight up but since you know each other. "Friend". I would say keep playing it cool if you're fucking already but when she hits you with that ultimatum (What are we?, Where is this going?, What am I to you?) Then you tell her straight up. Something like: "Look, I'm liking what we have going on but for right now I'm not looking to be exclusive." Some women will be cool with it and continue fucking you until they can "monkey branch" to the next one and give that same ultimatum down the line but if she's not cool with it... Fine. Send her on her way. She'll probably be back and it'll be your turn to hold the hoop.

2020-05-03T04:15:30+00:00

Men and women can't be friends. It's either she wants to fuck you or you're friendzoned. There is no mutual agreement when it comes to a man and woman. If she wants to fuck but the guy doesn't reciprocate then he's the prize in that relationship. Now in those situations the girl will try her best to be the center of his world. Doing shit for him normal girls won't do like buying him shit or even going out of the way to please him, cook, clean, etc.

The reason men and women can't be friends is because they both have a different view on what friendship is. Friendships with men can last lifetimes, a bond that sticks no matter what. Women will make friends now and drop them by next year because of competition among each other. There is nothing called loyalty when it comes to women. Here's a question. Why when men find out their female 'friends' have a crush on them it's not a big deal but when the roles are reversed women feel betrayed and are quick to ban you or minimize contact?

Long story short. If a female friend finds you're attractive to the point of sex then go for it. If not don't. Make her see some skin on you and gauge interest.

Title	How would you tell a girl “friend” that you want to fuck, but still be cool? AND HOW DO YOU PREVENT ANY ENTERING OF “FRIEND” FOREVER ON?
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Date	May 2, 2020 4:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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