Girl doesn't tell me who her ex is?

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-13T18:51:31+00:00

I asked this girl [...] who her ex was.

You shouldn't be giving a shit.

Get a non-bullshit mission and you'll find that you have actually important things to be worrying about.

ApdoSenpai · 2020-05-13T18:44:35+00:00

Imagine caring this much about the guy who hit it raw for three months whose load she swallowed every night.

Gl and I hope you know shes probably fucked him a couple times since then

IXseed · 2020-05-13T19:02:46+00:00

Why do you care?

HurricaneHugues · 2020-05-13T20:46:23+00:00

"Then I asked her who the guy was since I could've maybe known him but she asked me why it would matter that I know who it is."

Not that you should be asking these types of questions in the first place, but I'll help you out. It's one of her guy friends that she currently has. The fact that she got cheated on and he moved on to another girl most likely resulted in her being alpha widowed. She's highly likely still in contact with him or has the lines of communication VERY open, hoping he would come back to her. Just because she downplays him and even calls him a "fuckboy", it doesn't mean she doesn't want him bad. In fact we'd argue that the opposite is true. The more they trash talk the ex, the more emotions they have built up about the ex, the more they miss the ex. She just doesn't want you to tell her she can't talk to or hang out with him. Not that you should be telling her shit like that anyway, but most guys in the BP world do.

Take it easy on this one. Don't jump headfirst like a moron. Keep her as a plate, but stay looking for better quality girls.

Don_Draper27 · 2020-05-13T19:38:18+00:00

You shouldn’t care this much. You’re getting all paranoid over nothing.
If you hold frame and DGAF she’ll actually tell you willingly as a shit test. One day when she wants to fitness check your frame she’ll ask if you know (ex) and she’ll tell you they had a thing or whatever.

You asking and pressing about it seems insecure.

ay-fuh-q · 2020-05-13T21:00:45+00:00

You shouldn't care, BUT... her unwillingness to tell you means he's still a thing, no matter what she says or what you believe.

hqckbjpxhtbvpqfw · 2020-05-13T21:03:19+00:00

If she called him a fuckboy, she's definitely been alpha widowed. Alpha widowed girls are not worth investing in, in my experience.

Domebeers · 2020-05-13T22:50:38+00:00

OP, are you fucking this girl or not?

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2020-05-13T23:13:47+00:00

He's either too embarrassing compared to you or she is sleeping with him/wants to sleep with him again.

fuddubandha · 2020-05-13T19:55:23+00:00

She is still fucking him

Title	Girl doesn't tell me who her ex is?
Author	Athrownoway
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	May 13, 2020 6:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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"Then I asked her who the guy was since I could've maybe known him but she asked me why it would matter that I know who it is."