I have been journalling a lot lately and came up with a basic framework to life with zero bull shit.

One day you wake up in a different world and you see a portrait of you being a king.

You look outside and you see a kingdom its empty, destroyed and ugly it looks something like this https://imgur.com/a/CA8cfMy.

Obvious as king you realize that your kingdom got destroyed and you are the only one that is going to be able to fix it. You first ask yourself for 'Why am i wasting my time on fixing something if it gets destroyed again'. The reason is simple you need to rebuild it so people become attracted to your kingdom and your kingdom becomes thriving again. You understand that you need to make something attractive in order to attract people in it, but you also understand that there is a nice kingdom not far away from your ugly. destroyed and empty kingdom.

You start to ride on your beautiful white horse https://imgur.com/a/YXZby0E to the other kingdom and you look back one more time and realize that you have to beg your way up and play with rules in order to become successful in other men his kingdom.

Instead you went back and start fixing shit. You started fixing the place where your blacksmith was working https://imgur.com/a/glZolh6 then you started to fix the church. Eventually after several years of fixing shit it started to look like a decent kingdom https://imgur.com/a/R3vlduY.

What is the point of this story?

In order to attract people to your kingdom you have to first fix your problems i rather call them opportunities to grow. If you read Darwin origin of the species, mutation(change) in organisms is often takes a lot of effort and its a continual process of suffering. Change isn't easy but its necessary for growth i dare you to journal and identify your weak-points of your life and start working on them. Just like a kingdom a fallen church, a fallen blacksmith building and a fallen palace isn't attractive but once the church is rebuild, once the blacksmith building is rebuild and once the fallen palace is rebuild your kingdom will have its structure to attract the people https://imgur.com/a/WTcMUJg.