Girls are constantly telling me they “don’t wanna be played” before we meet up. Or are afraid I’m just “using them for sex”

I don’t necessarily feel that I am. If they prove their worth to me I would consider LTRing one. But, of course I would never tell them that. However I’m encountering a lot of resistance to first meet ups AND getting the pussy after a date. Even when I’m not necessarily giving off boyfriend vibes. These girls get attached quick too. What’s the right way to respond to this?