I keep wanting to send anonymous mail

Herbivore4Life · 2020-05-18T19:58:25+00:00

Write out the letter but don’t send it. Good to get the feelings out

Dead_Art · 2020-05-19T01:23:04+00:00

By giving her your thoughts she's still controlling you. Erase her and move on

ShortTailBoa · 2020-05-18T19:41:34+00:00

I feel you. I unfortunately don't have an answer for you but I just wanted to let you know that there are people out there suffering from the same exact problem.

BadWardrobe · 2020-05-18T19:58:58+00:00

There's one woman in particular who still pops into my head after years of no contact. Don't know why. Every now and again I'll have a random dream about her and it'll plague my morning. Again, no idea why. I have no interest in hearing from her again.

I've gotten past being angry about it though. What I remind myself of is that it's a waste of effort getting worked up over someone who gives no fucks about me. You're only mugging yourself by dwelling on this shit. If you can master that idea then even if she gatecrashes your thoughts, at least you won't get worked up about it.

FairlyWhelmed · 2020-05-18T20:01:30+00:00

Why do I keep wanting to do this? Why won't it just go away? It keeps popping up in my head. I can't seem to stop it.

Is there something about it that seems important to you, something that resonates with one of your values?

As you've discovered, trying to stop it may have they opposite effect. What if you could just accept its presence when it arises, just observe it, and let it be, without struggling with it or trying to avoid or control it?

Iqbal40862715 · 2020-05-18T21:32:57+00:00

You’re not alone buddy. It burns my ass that women are immune to karma. They’re not capable of introspection.

At times I wish karma would bite my ex wife in the ass for being such a vile narcissistic shit testing cunt.

Over time it should fade. If you can forgive take back emotional control over the situation and over time learn to not care I think you’ll come out OK.

Good luck

tacticalinfernape · 2020-05-19T09:31:53+00:00

dont do it. just dont. but good move posting your feelings here. remember, think with your brain not heart

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-05-18T23:21:32+00:00

Send your worst ones. But do it here, OP. Do not give MA any attention at all. That's the worst punishment you can give. Send your most vile mail to her on this sub. We understand and we are with you. Because we were there all as well. But FFS: attention is the main reason women live by. It doesn't matter if it's good or bad attention.

2020-05-18T23:39:57+00:00

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The_Whorror_Show · 2020-05-19T08:32:15+00:00

DONT DO IT!

For years I was mad at my guest girlfriend for cheating on me ruthlessly. I did nothing to get revenge, I felt so angry at times, but it's yen years later, she's been riding the cock carousel, and these women hit the wall and you get to take perverse pleasure from it. It's so great knowing that her family knows she cheated on her first boyfriend and now she's struggling to find a man.

Title	I keep wanting to send anonymous mail
Author	TigPlaze
Upvotes	18
Comments	13
Date	May 18, 2020 7:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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