Why is being unaffected so attractive to women? And why, once you get affected, they tend to dig and dig, to exploit that weakness?

umizumiz · 2020-06-07T01:30:53+00:00

The question you’re trying to ask is “Why is frame attractive?”

That’s a difficult question that has more than one answer. I’ll try to give a few.

A man with frame is not a coward
A man with frame is the same person in any room
A man with frame will keep you and your children safe
A man with frame isn’t afraid to speak his mind and put you in your place when necessary
A man with frame puts himself first
A man with frame has an abundance mentality

Any questions? Seriously feel free.

harmonicpinch · 2020-06-07T00:39:17+00:00

Easiest indicator of a person’s worth is their own self-image. Now a high quality woman will see through a fake aloofness/confidence facade, but your average girl will find it a +2 for attractiveness. It also generally shows will to procreate and protect, even if you’re faking.

FrankLucasV2 · 2020-06-07T00:57:30+00:00

From what I know, being unaffected or not phased by anything shows strength in a woman’s eyes, and it also covertly tells her that you’re emotionally centred and it will take a lot more to trigger you emotionally. It also gives off a sense of mystery which is what you want because it gives them a challenge, so they wanna keep trying to figure you out. You don’t a woman to know what gets you ticking, otherwise she’s figured you out and she gets ‘bored’.

‘Shit tests’ are done by women to 1) provoke an emotional reaction from you & 2) test your confidence/masculinity. When a woman is testing you, she has found a potential weakness in you. If you’re someone who lacks masculinity or confidence, you’ll more than likely fail the ‘shit test’ by giving off an emotional reaction, and that gives her something to feed off and then she starts connecting the dots & it’s only a matter of time before she’s found out what gets you emotional. That’s why they constantly poke at your weakness.

It depends on the type of shit test to a small extent but for the most part, you shouldn’t react emotionally because if you do, 1) she will use this against you when the situation occurs & 2) it reminds her of herself. Women want a guy who’s the opposite of her in most or all aspects, especially emotionally.

Hope this helps.

FightForYourWay · 2020-06-07T01:50:14+00:00

unaffected = cool under pressure = evolutionary pro-survival trait.

failing shittests = poor social skills (among other things) = low value male which gives subconscious urge to women to challenge, failing makes her lose attraction which makes her challenge you, fail again... vicious cycle.

CptCampi · 2020-06-07T03:22:36+00:00

A woman will absolutely try to destroy her partner. Tear him down. Like seriously try to fuck with him and demolish who he is. It's completely natural. It's how they vet their partners. It's why, to men who fail shit tests, it feels like women are evil. They are out to get you, it's their way of seeing if you can deal with some shit. If you can't deal with the bullshit she's throwing at you, how are you going to be able to deal with the world's bullshit?

Being unaffected shows that you're still in control of at least yourself, not panicking and that's why it's attractive. The more serious the shit is, and the more in control you stay, the better you are as a man.

Pink_Hanna · 2020-06-07T11:22:54+00:00

The word attraction means 2 very different things for men and for women, because the respective end games are radically different. Feminism has made it clear that it is a struggle for power. That is what women want. Just like for you the game is pussy. You want to sleep with more women just because pussy, and women want more power. Male and female strategies are also different. Men hunt, right? Women are more subtle. Like a microorganism that enters your body and takes you down from within.

Deluxillo23 · 2020-06-07T03:44:23+00:00

Your own perception about things is positive and strong = survivability
You make them feel inferior to you by not considering her reality = submission

alphakari · 2020-06-07T10:52:13+00:00

"Being affected is unattractive" is a stronger claim than "being unaffected is attractive."

Sure, if you don't respond to something, a girl's hamster might work her up, but in my experience that's only if she's already obsessed over you/invested on some level.

Guys who are affected by everything are annoying. They look like they have a panic attack when you call their name, turning to face you at mach 7. You ask them a question and they never give you a simple answer, so you start to dread needing anything from them. Unreliable and inconsistent.

Sorta like how bitches are.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-07T15:03:12+00:00

They shit test you because if you crumple to them.. you will crumple to everybody else and she doesn't want that.. she wants you to defend her with your very life while not even considering doing the same.

kingofclubsmorde · 2020-06-07T21:41:44+00:00

Because it is written in our DNA. It is part of our animalistic primal nature behind the consciousness.

Enjoy women as they are but don't tolerate egoistic bullshit. Work on your mission and there will be women that come as a bonus wanting to be a part of your journey.

Title	Why is being unaffected so attractive to women? And why, once you get affected, they tend to dig and dig, to exploit that weakness?
Author	AresLudovisi
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Date	June 7, 2020 12:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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