Without the obvious answer being "yes" for her using me for my supposed wealth, I want to get a proper answer since it's confusing.
I'm a 20 year old from Illinois and have finished college 2 years ago. Currently, I am furloughed from work due to the pandemic so I'm on my purpose reading books, investing in Vanguard,and trying to become to start some software for big corps to sell to.
I know you guys hate the "this girl" question and that it can be answered by spinning more plates which I currently am btw. I just want to get something cleared up and see if this method of game works.
So I knew this girl from my college but we barely talked other than the old hi and bye. I saw her at a bar a year later when she came back to my small town with her friends and we got back in contact, grabbed her digits and went on 3 dates, all which only ended in a kiss (Bad). Logistics weren't right so couldn't fuck.
She moved back to her city and that was that. However, randomly I messaged her months later after she posted on her story and we started chatting. She starts asking what I'm doing and I for some reason decided to bullshit her.
I was like "business took off and I hit a home run, so just looking to retire in the next few years and chill". After this, she was congratulating me etc.
Now she came back to my city and she messaged me asking to hang out. We did and we fucked this time as I had my place to myself. She poked around my wealth asking what I do exactly but I kept it general saying "Trading stuff".
She went back to her city and that was that
Now everytime she comes back to my city, she hits me up asking to hang out.
I'm curious, what is her intention? Considering she lives 800km away and hits me up when she visits once per month, and we have zero contact once shes gone.
Could it still be natural attraction because we did go on dates and make out etc before I told her of this story, but now it seems like she initiates hang outs when she's near me.
I'm just curious to hear what you guys think
I don't spend money on her, other than the occasional drink or food. She also buys me food and drinks
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