I’m in love with this bitch but have navigated my mistakes with enough DGAF & stfu that she keeps coming back (for sex) despite her many options. I’m doing the work on myself to give less fucks, and TRP continues to digest in my system.

My question is:

Does anyone have any tips to avoid nuking a (recently-opened) LTR? She got a tinder match while we were fucking (“Mad? Nah; maybe a 3some buddy If you let me reply to the messages”), but told me later she’s also talking with girls.

I don’t want to let my feelz get in the way of the potential glory here.

My current goal is to continue to let her do the work, take advantage of her presence when she makes it convenient, FOCUS ON MYSELF, CHANNEL MY ANGER-PHASE INTO MORE LIFTING...

So after seeing myself write all this, I guess the idea here besides the above should be: how can I get her comfortable sharing her sexcapades with me without getting butthurt.

Example: If she actually follows through with a potential 3some buddy, it would be harder for me to accept it emotionally If she selected a dude. I’m open to MMF (never done it) but (obviously?) would prefer to start with/make routine the FFM situation.

Can some veterans comment on “downgrading an LTR” to a successful plate who continues to open up and share sexual vulnerability? Is comfortable talking about her orbiters..

How can her extracurriculard become side-projects that benefit me? Thanks for reading.

Basically looking for tips to deal with an HB8 who’s running around my place in her undies, while my kid as around, doing the family-ish vibe thing with her sexuality lingering in the background like crack.