Hello everyone! Sorry if this is not allowed here, but I was wondering if any of you ladies have dealt with guys/matches not ask you about you? Let alone try to really get to know you?

I’ve constantly had this problem for a long time now along with dry/one ended conversations and it drives me nuts! I always assumed that if you’re interested in someone, you’d ask them about their goals, life, etc. I’m always the one asking and making an effort and not getting that in return and I’m tired of it.

While I no longer waste my time and energy on guys who don’t reciprocate, and are clearly not in to me, I still keep stumbling on these guys it’s like I’m a magnet to them. I have had guys who seem great but would be better if only they took a genuine interest in me which is a red flag of course and cut them off.

Anyway, apologies for the rant I feel better already though haha I would love to hear how you dealt with this and some steps you took to deter these type of matches. Thanks!