Long time lurker of this sub but finally needed to rant about the absolute audacity of these bozos on dating sites. I blame society for giving them so much confidence in the first place but I honestly can't FATHOM how they look in the mirror at their old, overweight, balding self and think "hey, i feel like cheating on my wife so i'm gonna attempt to get some pussy from girls half my age without offering anything in return besides erectile dysfunction and coffee dates".

I use OkCupid and the most annoying thing about it is that men can send you "intros"/messages even if you dont like or match them. Obvi I'm not looking to date/meet up with anyone now but I'm 22 and the amount of 40+ men with kids that reach out in hopes to "get to know" me or asking i've id be open to a "discreet/non-monogamous" rs is INSANE. They so casually mention that they are married but are looking for something more genuine. Do they honestly truly believe that college aged girls are more than happy to be a therapist/side piece/emotional support pussy for absolutely nothing in return??? During a pandemic too?? Sometimes I wish I could just send them a video of me laughing so they can realize how dumb they sound. And these are the same ones running around on the internet swearing up and down that young girls are naturally attracted to older men/love them and that it's ok to prey on them bc BioLOgy, give me a break