There Are So, So Many Things Wrong with This...

chicharrofrito · 2020-03-02T22:01:05+00:00

He keeps sending me the same messages with the same, blah blah you need to have babies and relationships to be happy.

Honestly, the amount of people who have told me that I will eventually have children and a husband, etc, etc is astounding. Friends and family members have told me constantly about being in relationship and guys I’m seeing.

I’m only 19 years old!!

Why can’t people butt out of a woman’s personal autonomy and life? I hate the idea that as a woman somehow you are in debt to an imaginary man who will control your body. It enrages me to think about the quantity of women who have been rejected getting hysterectomies because their bodily autonomy is considered irrelevant in regards to what they actually want.

Maybe eventually I will have children and a husband, or maybe I’ll have none and a wife. Why can’t I decide for myself what I want with my body and when?

Right now, as a single young woman, I have no inclination to be in a relationship with anyone. I have my degree to work on, my own personal issues that I need to sort through and make amends with. I don’t want to be trapped as an unhappy thirty something year old woman in an unfulfilling marriage with a man I resent for making me unwillingly cease my own aspirations and goals, with kids I regret having.

(Sorry for the rant, I just had this pent up for a while)

Tl;dr: Society (read, men) oppress women into relationships and into being mothers as a way to be “fulfilled.”

2020-03-02T23:46:03+00:00

Then why the few times I tried to date people and became their under appreciated mom's did I feel worse.

The guy I dated told me multiple times how he was extremely disappointing in bed. We never had sex.

So I would have been sacrificing my happy single life to have a disappointing sex life where I would be stressed out over a man baby and then also be taking care of babies, that he would inevitably teach bad and harmful beliefs, making their lives harder? Nah. Pass. I'll wait til a competent adult comes along.

extraacct1234 · 2020-03-02T23:49:53+00:00

LVM manipulation.

It's so transparent.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-03-03T00:01:35+00:00

The person who wrote this was simply PROJECTING their own feelings about themself.

siberiansummer · 2020-03-03T00:03:53+00:00

Red pillers always yell how miserable we are nowadays because we don’t get married and have a traditional family being a house slave. They even bring up some sTatIStiCS. To which I always think: so if women were soooo hApPy being houseslaves why did it all change?? Changes don’t happen cause everybody is content. Changes happen when shit ain’t right. I was together with my LVM ex for 10 years and married to him for 8. You don’t know how happy I am to be rid of him. I was so miserable with him the last 3 years of my marriage. I can’t imagine living like that for the rest of my life because of some dumb socioeconomic reasons

pissed_af · 2020-03-02T23:57:51+00:00

Picture mother gothel saying their messages to you. If it feels like her, they're trying to manipulate you

Title	There Are So, So Many Things Wrong with This...
Author	chicharrofrito
Upvotes	5
Comments	10
Date	March 2, 2020 9:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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