I haven’t mentioned this sub to anyone in my circle bar my best friend who likes the philosophies but doesn’t have time for reddit.

I need to rant to people who understand.

Like I‘ve said I haven’t mentioned the philosophies of this sub or this sub to anyone bar one person. I went out with a girlfriend who is married and our other friends who are also married.

I’m single for reference and have abstained from sex by choice for years. As you can see from my post history, sex is offered to me constantly on tinder but I’m not interested.

The friend and I got to talking about my dating life etc. She has a HV husband. I told her how I’ve changed my mind on like how I’m anti-porn and I don’t think casual sex benefits women. Her response was:

  1. But don’t women watch porn too?
  2. But don’t women seek out casual sex too?

I didn’t bother explaining to much about it. I just said it was not something I think is a benefit to women in society to reiterate.

Another friend and I were watching TV, the TV show got us talking about guy types etc. She knows I’m picky and don’t have casual sex or barely go on dates as it is. She can project quite a bit since her bf is in my opinion LVM. I said I wouldn’t date a guy with hand tattoos or other bad tattoos because they show bad judgement. Her response was:

  1. That the perfect guy doesn’t exist and I won’t find him. You keep waiting?
  2. The guy you imagine in your head doesn’t exist.

In the past she’s said that I need to pursue guys more (before I found this sub a month ago I already knew that shit was not my style and was unnatural). One guy that I was seeing casually lives in another state and I suspect is a fuckboy, she encourage me to travel 4 hours to see him?! Lol 😂 I’m not an idiot.

I think she projects because she sees I have a choice still and I’ve noticed that with some of my friends, not all.

I’m just sick of the disrespect from guys and being hurt. I get hurt quite easily and I’ve had my heart / life torn apart by men in the past. I won’t allow that to happen again. I’ve seen other examples like my mother, sisters, aunts, cousins all horribly affected by LVM. I won’t let it happen to me!

I’m really trying to get over their comments.