College tinder date tonight, need some pointers/dos & donts

omega_dawg93 · 2018-11-13T16:13:18+00:00

do... do more observing and less talking, esp. watching her body language.

do... let her break moments of silence in the conversations at times. just look at her until she starts talking. if she's struggling to engage you, smirk and start talking; this plays to her submission. don't ask any questions if you can aside from basic shit.

do... let her "talk herself out of her panties." iow, don't try to 'sell yourself' as the guy for her. don't gaf except to enjoy your time and food, etc.

do... get caught looking (not staring) at the fine ass girl who just walked by. and be sure to smirk when she sees you doing it.

do... if your waitress is female, do engage her with a big smile and nice small talk prior to and after the date.

do... act like (mannerisms & demeanor) that you've already fucked her. don't come across as desperate or needy. if you're doing it right, she should FEEL your sexual energy which keeps you out of the friend zone. if you end-up in the friend zone, it is YOUR fault.

BADBOY_LUXURY · 2018-11-13T13:40:05+00:00

If things are going well, ask her if she has got any plans later in the evening. If she says no, tell her you’re going to watch a movie at your place and that she is free to tag along

RaughKee · 2018-11-13T16:33:43+00:00

Logistics are good. You don't really have to do anything ridiculous, don't be afraid to touch her a bit on the arm, tease her a bit, have a reason to go back to your place and make the invite natural. You'd be surprised at how easy these things are if you feel natural doing them.

Da_RectumWrecker · 2018-11-13T21:14:18+00:00

>I know a lot of girls my age/off tinder in general don’t like a hug on the first date.

Da fuq did I just read? Dude you need to go read the sidebar. I bet I could take out those same girls that you're going out with and be choking them as they tell me to fuck them harder later that night. If that isn't happening for you, go lift.

As for kino, the best way it was explained to me was simple. Do you know how jellyfish meet and mate? They spread their tentacles out in all directions. Two jellyfish's tentacles touch. The jellyfish slowly sends more and more tentacles out to touch. This process is repeated until they are completely touching each other. They tangle their tentacles and they mate.

Basically, start small and adjust as you progress. Touch her while talking. Move to sit right next to her. If she doesn't recoil back, you can progress. Grab her had to admire a bracelet, but don't let it go and keep talking as you look at her. Did she leave her hand in yours or did she pull it back? If you're able to hold her hand just keep it and escalate from there. If she pulls her hand back she isn't attracted to you yet. After you get her to pass the hand test she will definitely be down to kiss you. Jellyfish your way in and do it.

Psychological_Radish · 2018-11-13T20:55:10+00:00

Sex hasn’t really been in the cards on date 1 without more planning due to former circumstance (shitty dorm, being home with my parents, etc).

Wrong. Sex wasn't in the cards because you didn't prepare for success. If the logistics aren't there it's because you are failing in your duty as a man, which is to create an opportunity for sex to happen.

The truth is girls don't care about your shitty dorm or if you live with your parents.

I know a lot of girls my age/off tinder in general don’t like a hug on the first date.

Literally every single girl I have ever met online I greeted with a hug. Of course a lot of girls say they don't like the hug, but this isn't a business meeting. You want to set the right tone from the get go. She will know within seconds (consciously or not) if she would let you fuck her that night.

What might work to my advantage is that this particular place plays loud music later at night, so I could take her out on a walk and end up at my apartment.

Don't worry about that. If she's into it just take her home within an hour. Go with the flow and don't drag things out artificially because you want to stick with a script.

Anybody with experience fucking college girls on tinder have advice on how to close in this situation?

Once you actually get that Tinder is all about Alpha fucks, you will start making the right moves. Based on your post, I don't think you have internalized the RedPill mindset yet. That's why you couldn't succeed in the past.

College girls aren't looking for a relationship. They don't care about the actual date. They don't care about your good heart or your thoughtful gesture or how much of a gentleman you are. Those things are actually counterproductive much of the time.

All college girls want to do is have fun with Alphas. They're at the height of their SMV, carefree, and unspoiled from years of heartbreak. Give her what she wants. Be fun, charming, and escalate so sex can happen.

Curveball: she texted me just now asking if we can go somewhere “way less high effort” (dumb bc the cheap pizza place is the definition of low effort) like [club] or [gyro restaurant/bar].

Girls that really want to meet you are submissive to your requests. They won't risk trying to change the venue. So this isn't a great sign.

I think your idea of smoking weed at your place is the appropriate response.

naMlliPdeR · 2018-11-14T00:35:41+00:00

I like to get them talking about sex. Once rapport is decent an d flirting is happening, i'll ask them to play "the question game". They can ask me any question, i'll answer honestly, then I do the same. Can't ask each other the same question the other person asked. Then just steer it in a sexual direction.

Any chance to touch her, do it. Kino escalation is super important.

GolfinEagle · 2018-11-13T19:30:52+00:00

Every Tinder date I’ve been on (like a dozen of them) has been purely for sex. Last night I met a Tinder chick who came here from Ireland in July— easily 8/10, sexy accent, I met her at a Starbucks for literally less than 60 seconds then invited her to come with me to my SUV for implied sexy time. I drove to a secluded parking lot and fucked her for a half hour in the back of it. I came all over her ass and she didn’t even clean it off, just soaked it up with her skirt and then we made out for like an hour before I dropped her back at her car.

I’m not telling this story to brag (okay maybe a little) but to show you what you can accomplish if you make Tinder about fucking. Half the women are WAITING for you to start making subtle moves to turn her on. MAKE IT ABOUT IT. Ask her for her number and tell her you just got out of the shower and took a pic... ask her if she wants to see, when she says “sure” send her a pic in your underwear. Tease her. Ask her if she wants another pic, and this time show her your dick. Get her turned on and by the time the actual date is happening she won’t go because she wants engaging conversation— she’ll go because she’s been wanting you to fuck her in the face for the last four days.

That’s why she’s on fucking Tinder and texting back and forth with you, she’s on the prowl for strange cocks and your’s is a prime candidate if you don’t fuck it up asking her about her personality and her college degree.

This is coming from a motherfucker with actual mild autism— if I can do it, you fuckers have no excuses!

Title	College tinder date tonight, need some pointers/dos & donts
Author	ANAL_SAILBOAT
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Date	November 13, 2018 12:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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