Weird night. Convince HB8 off tinder to come drink beer and watch a horror movie with me at my place. Maybe I’m daft, but sex was definitely on the menu.

Immediately put my arm around her, she comes in close and puts her head on my chest, I feel her legs and ass and waist throughout the movie, she’s into it. I put on a tv show and talk with her a while. Entire night she was very interested, called me hot a number of times, signaled she also didn’t like the idea of marriage or having kids.

she gets up to go to the bathroom, stops by the threshold of my door and compliments my room. I walk up, smile and kiss her, grab her neck etc. we’re making out, I push her on the bed, I turn off the lights and turn on my playlist.

After a while of making out, I move to her neck. Maybe a bit choppy of a transition because, hey, I was a little drunk, but I start putting my hand inside her waistband. No resistance.

I get bored and decide to caveman, think to myself fuck it and grab her yoga pants about to rip em off. Why not? At this point she’s lying on my bed, as drunk as I am. I figured I was good to go.

She recoils though and goes “woah woah woah [name], not now, I’m not drunk enough

My [horrible] response to this is to go back to making out and say “why not now?” And she says some shit about not being drunk, I tell her to finish the last beer she told me to get for her.

We start making out again, I went for her panties again, but slowly this time. She jumps up and is like “seriously, no matter how hot you are...” At this point my frame is slipping bc this hasn’t happened to me before. Idk what to do so I let her go to the bathroom and begin what I guess was her rejection.

Tells me we’re going to a club around the block, she just needs to get changed back at her apartment and she’ll meet me there. I sort of protest, she says she’ll pay for my cover because she wants to see me there, says she wants to come back and finish what we started later. Comes over and kisses me, tells me to text her then dips.

Never heard from her later that night, even though my dumb drunk ass texted “what’s up” like an hour or two after she left.

What the fuck happened? Obviously she’s no churchgoer so ASD wasn’t the issue, I mean she came over and got drunk at a stranger’s house with action heavily implied.

Did I get legit rejected? Was all the bullshit about wanting to come back later her way of defusing what she interpreted as a dangerous situation?

Lesson learned: don’t get that drunk again when I’m putting the moves on

tl;dr: tinder girl comes over for what I assume is a hookup, ends up leaving in a confusing way