Sorry if this has been posted previously.

So my issue is that I’ve had a terrible and minimal experience with dating. I’m 23.

But what I’ve had notice about the guys that I’ve dated (I’ve been doing just OLD, both Tinder and reddit. Since anyone IRL is approaching me) and I’ve noticed that guys always judge me for two things: being a musician (I’m on my way to be a professional) and not having a degree yet (I’m on a final step to get my bachelors) and living with my grandparents.

What it seems funny is that the last two men I dated, they both graduated from undergraduate degree’s somehow late (26 and 30) and I don’t think like they have the right to judge me. And they both still live with their parents at ages 28 and 31. (I live in Venezuela tho, it’s pretty hard to become independent here)

Anyway, I had some baggage from this previous relationships and I don’t feel ready to date again. But I want to become a desirable partner. With one of the guys I acted as a pickmeisha (sorry) and with the other one, even though he did all the chasing and I waited until we were official, he still dumped me in a very shitty way.

I’m going to therapy right now, but I’d like to know what else could I do in this “break” from dating to become a better potential partner?

Thanks in advance.