Hello all,

I have a male associate that Ive known for over 8 years. We met at my job, he worked in a neighboring department, and he had been trying for over 2 years to get my number or become my friend. So the first time he approached me, I was visibly livid, and taking a walk to calm down. He found this moment opportune to try to get my number, and ultimately try to fuck me. I told him to fuck off, and later that year or the next we became cordial and I gave him my number for whatever reason I cant remember. As years passed, I let him meet me after work for drinks, and since I dont drink much, he would drink more and offer way more information about himself than I gave him. He told me that at that time he was living with a woman that loved him but he didnt care for, and was using her to save money so that he can move out. He knew that he was breaking up with her 6 months before he actually did, and was basically using her to live rent free. Of course this made me livid, but I grit my teeth and maintained stature. More years passed, and I found out his level of slime had no bounds, the more I learned, the less I spoke on my actual opinion. The strangest thing about the whole ordeal is that he has been a stellar friend to me and I care about him (maybe I'm a massochist) Now he is telling me that he's unhappy in his current relationship and would do anything to be with me, but I'm repulsed by him. Part of me wants to be his karma, and the rest of me doesn't even have time for that. I have a cousin who may have been even slimier than this one, and I have to say that they are incredible at giving insight on fuckboys and relationships. Should I keeps him for my studies or let this dog loose?