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[–]suaveagaveFDS Disciple142 points143 points144 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
It’s such a shame that sending naked pics has become so normalized for young women that it’s almost become a societal expectation in the dating game.
No man you’re getting to know for the first time is worth it, ladies. I immediately lose respect for and ghost the men who even ask for one.
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 70 points71 points72 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had an ex threaten to send my pictures to my friends and family after I broke up with him for cheating on me.
That was the very last time I ever sent pictures, even though I get asked constantly by bums on dating apps. When they ask I say "I don't do that" and they inevitably whine about it but that's not my fucking problem.
[–]acuuurFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
same thing happened to me! except it was a guy on tinder and i hadn’t actually met him yet. i was stupid and horny and he threatened to send it to my dad and people from my old high school, i actually had to delete all of my social media because it was so bad :( never again
[–]Havest22FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
i never give out nudes unless its someone i really trust and were in a committed long term thing. Saying you wont give out nudes is a good way to weed out those types too.
cause you can never know where your nudes will end up, on the internet or who knows where.
[–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I cannot fathom EVER sending naked pics to anyone, for ANY REASON. Those are out there forever after, leaving you open to blackmail and threats.
[–]lakantalaFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS!
We cannot actually tell if our relationship will be okay for the rest of our life, we can never know a guy well enough. So it’s best not to leave a potential blackmail item in his hands.
PREACH~!
[–]BLKR3b3LYaMmYFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
cannot be upvoted enough times.
[–]melimiel24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay but Can we talk about the not so obvious f*ck boys? These are the signs that most women would recognize. I feel like it’s even worse when he doesn’t show any of these signs but still messes with your head. The more subtle signs are:
Bottom line. Don’t be afraid to demand respect and don’t let the confusion hold you back from voicing your own feelings. Then you will see if he truly is a f*ck boy.
[–]murph62339 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
When the boy you like is many of these......
That hurts
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 63 points64 points65 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl, no. You deserve better.
[–]lacey_marieFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was thinking about dropping the guy I like and then I read this list and I was like wow almost everything on this list applies to him... needless to say I’m not gonna think twice about saying bye.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ew. Don't like that guy.
[–]kaztheklutzFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey look! It’s my past dating life! 😂🤣😅
[–]DiscochickensFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sends you texts “sup”
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or "wyd" 😡😡
[–]prettyexcitingnewsFDS Disciple18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sadly they are very attractive and they know it well, therefore many girls fall for them (including me). But ladies, please know your worth. You deserve better. Those fuckbois should be left alone, don’t feed their ego. They need a therapy. 🙂
[–]MissCandidFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
HONESTLY though
[–]snakesister_officialFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow! My crush is all of these except maybe claiming to have strong feelings for me. Mine is emotionally unavailable. Mostly he likes to whisper breathily that he has to have me... 😅 I’m on my way away from him now. Have only come a little way, but at least I’ve made the decision.
[–]AigonorusFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can anyone explain what's the meaning of "Doesn't believe in labels"?🤔 Labels as in bi/pan etc or something else??
[–]RegularAnybodyFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it means relationship labels like boyfriend/girlfriend.
[–]AigonorusFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see!
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Such a great analytical post.
[–]toesandmoretoesFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My boyfriend only does number 5, glad he’s not a fuck boy.
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist[S] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl, what. That’s still not good
Edit: my bad, I thought it says he DOESNT have deep feelings for you lmao. Good for you 💕
[–]JuJuOwOUwUFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh I had an ex who did this it hits home lmao
[–]midorisalsa0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, that explains why i keep getting my heart broken...
[–]lolumadbr0FDS Newbie-3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg so freaking true!
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