what's so wrong with getting into a LTR rather than trying to have ons, "plates", fwbs etc?

vandaalen · 2018-11-28T08:17:29+00:00

I put limitations on myself and want others to do it as well.

Let's be very clear here: you, you personally, will never be able to attract a quality woman that is worth committing to with that mindset. Never ever.

http://archive.is/yxzC1

There is no wrong with it though. More fish for the rest of us.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-11-28T08:36:35+00:00

Look, if you want ONE WOMAN to decide if you're fucking or not, and want to let ONE WOMAN walk out the door with 100% of your pussy supply, then by all means, go ahead.

wobbleelbbow · 2018-11-28T07:15:12+00:00

Lack of abundance is a shortcut to failed ltr. You do not understand what trp is if you ask such question.

ibhova · 2018-11-28T08:41:07+00:00

Rollo talks about operative social conventions. One of them is that “you are lucky to get a girl”

Keeps you from realizing your true value,if you are under 30 what are you doing giving commitment. Build life experience

Bruchibre · 2018-11-28T09:25:39+00:00

It’s good to have some experience and notches under your belt before entering a LTR. I was so blue pill and beta with my first LTR that she ate me alive and used me as a doormat. 20 years later in LTR I behave like a pimp.

self-medicate · 2018-11-28T15:24:18+00:00

There's nothing wrong with limiting yourself to one woman, if that's what you want. Guys in TRP think that having many is better and that anyone can have many if they work on themselves.

Kamiwari727 · 2018-11-28T10:05:47+00:00

1) A LTR is hard to manage properly.

2) In an LTR, the woman either owns your balls, or you have to constantly control, babysit and have drama with her.

3) Us humans are not biologically wired for monogamy. You guys will eventually get bored of each other (she will sooner than you, usually).

4) An LTR will promote laziness and complacency in your women side of life.

5) Your game will deteriorate, if you have any (which I doubt, because you said "... most of us are lucky to have even one chick be into us." Terrible mindset, dude).

Title	what's so wrong with getting into a LTR rather than trying to have ons, "plates", fwbs etc?
Author	throwawayt456
Upvotes	1
Comments	46
Date	November 28, 2018 7:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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