Are you okay or not with this advices? I am not really okay cause I won’t date a man who doesn’t value a woman for her career and education. IMO a man can be a provider but be impressed by a woman’s achievements. It’s like it’s telling women that they should only look feminine to be valued

AyemHerself · 2020-03-15T22:14:09+00:00

It depends on whether he's attracted to her ambition or her money. They aren't mutually inclusive.

2020-03-15T22:36:30+00:00

A HVM man shouldn’t be completely dismissive of a woman’s achievements. But if women start talking about their experiences to an LVM like they’re reciting their resume, the LVM might start strategizing how they can use them.

We’ve seen those posts by now showing homeless/couch surfing men looking for women to give them a place to stay and cook for them. There’s also been posts showing that men who make significantly less than women eventually start to resent their partners and they’re more likely to be unfaithful. Sometimes women date their biggest hater. 🤷🏼‍♀️

hongkonghenry · 2020-03-15T23:24:34+00:00

I don't agree that it's only 'impressive' if the guy isn't a provider. I think it's only 'desired' if he isn't a provider. A HVM, in my opinion, would be equally impressed by a struggling artist who was talented and passionate but not financially well off, as they would be by an amazing business woman who had already achieved financial success. A LVM would not, and would desire the financially better option only.

Radiant_Success · 2020-03-15T21:27:22+00:00

I agree with the statement pictured.

A career, an education, achievements, and money are 4 completely separate things, and they definitely don't all align neatly and congruently.

People get to decide for themselves what they do and do not value. Yes, society shapes most of this, but there are also individual variances that are often shaped by factors stemming from our childhood and/or past experiences.

JOEYMAMI2015 · 2020-03-16T16:03:31+00:00

There are such things as male gold diggers. My pos ex is with a woman 14 years his senior........

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