I always see this talk on reddit about MGTOWs being 'sent' their own way. So I wanted just share my own experience. I'm 27 and I know a 31 yrs old korean dancer/pilates instructor. She is hot af. She has tons of followers on all her social media and of course, tons of men lusting after her. She's a nice person though and she doesn't have overly high expectations of her lovers (with emphasis on loverS because she had plenty). We spend a few days together and hit it off well. On our first "date" (honesty I was just looking for some new people to hang out with) she hugged me SO tight at the end, it was almost a bit uncomfortable. Anyways, after our third "date" she was getting impatient and just straight up told me, "I like you, I want you". I did NOTHING. I'm not even rich or overly attractive. But I was nice and polite. She's from a good family too and she isnt lazy. I think any guy would have said yes in a heart beat (or asked her out right away). Why did I say no? Truth be told, I think love is a scam. In school/college my mother had a saying "You have to follow rules boy: 1. Studying above all 2. love is stupid and dangerous". After meeting many women, I can tell they're very elusive. They can go from "I want to hear your voice every day" to "I dont even know who you are" in heart beat. It's crazy how heartless they can be. And who knows, maybe this girl isnt like them. But am I willing to find that out? Not really. I've had plenty of nice girls from good families disappoint me for no reason. My mission in life is to get fit, make money and find more friendships. Reminds me a bit of One Piece. So yeah, dont let those redditors tell you what to do.