What's it like being a Chad?

Psychological_Radish · 2020-06-19T02:53:48+00:00

I highly doubt that anyone on this forum is a legitimate Chad. Chad isn't on TRP because he never had need of it.

I'll use my "Chad" friend as an example. The thing about attractive guys is that, like anyone else, they're always striving for more. Girls that would widely be considered HB7-8 are basically invisible to Chad. Only HB9+ will do, but oftentimes those girls are out of reach even for him. Maybe not for Giga Chad, who knows.

It's human nature not be satisfied.

Popeman79 · 2020-06-19T02:09:51+00:00

Since I've become more successful, I started to understand more how hot women can develop such a bitchy attitude: when you're attractive, everyone (men and women) wants a piece of you. Some want to fuck you, some just want to be seen with you, some want to be validated by you.

At the beginning it's nice, it boosts your ego. But it gets old real quick, and it's hard not to be mean to the 20th person who comes bother you and doesn't get the clear clues that you're not interested.

Part of becoming Chad is learning to deal with constant attention, and using it to raise others up, instead of putting them down.

kclanton80 · 2020-06-19T15:01:31+00:00

I'm a Chad. Women love you....but men, especially your friends hate you. Makes it hard to have good friendships because of the constant jealously.

Women can also be a huge distraction, so being able to get many of them can also be a curse.

It's gift and a curse.

zachthrowaway300 · 2020-06-19T08:42:02+00:00

I am a chad, or used to be. I've had sex with a lot of women off tinder. It's pretty much life on easy mode (in terms of women).

women want to get to know you. e.g. at work they will always want to talk to you and ask about you.
women pay for your dates or offer to pay because they really like you
women will literally do anything for you
get stared out/checked out a lot

but all in all it's a bit overrated, sure it's easy getting womenad you feel better but even chads get cheated on.

BluzzKill · 2020-06-19T02:03:01+00:00

Like everyone else's life with the added struggle of juggling tons 9fnpussy with all my other responsibilities and constant parties.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-06-19T19:32:31+00:00

So a guy I used to be in a band with years ago was a Chad for sure. Pussy fell out of the sky for him. I had some general idea that he was a handsome guy - he worked as a male model and also did some acting - but having been out with him in NYC, there was def something about him that women REACTED to. My brain in his body? We would RULE.THE.WORLD.

I can also tell you that while he had it easy with women he was generally a fuck-up in life because he was stupid. Not "shitting in his hand and wiping it on his face" stupid, but def dumb.

Everybody has their own set of existential problems, even Staceys (for that matter). I'd rather have "pretty people problems" than "incel" problems, ofc.

What you have to understand, though, is that true happiness comes from within.

catz123456 · 2020-06-19T15:45:49+00:00

Part of being a chad is being blue-pilled. They don't know why they get a pussy. People around me think I'm a chad mostly cause of physical traits but not qualified cause of this first point. I came to this community through a google search of a situation I was. Somehow ended up on this subreddit and saw some stuff on here that I really related with.

deadendfiftyten · 2020-06-26T17:21:25+00:00

I'm not a chad (overweight a bit, working on that) and I am not an extroverted alpha, I cannot stand the constant "gotta do better than the other guy" attitude alphas seem to have. I would consider myself "Sigma" according to this and I am tall (almost 7 foot). I completely suck at online dating, generally invisible on all forms of online dating, but IRL women approach me all the time. I'm a pretty risk averse MGTOW (sigma again) though my spiritual beliefs let me see beyond this, but in this current climate where it's a "girls worst nightmare that men have proof they aren't rapists" it's just not worth the risk most of the time unless she's really hot. And I mean really hot. Like thin with massive tits hot.

I know I'm tall and I know most guys aren't I also know tallness is #1 on a hot girls priority, so I actively shit test them. I love shit testing hot women cus they just aren't used to guys even talking to them let alone guys not pedestalling them.

I've been chad looks but broke AF and I've been rich AF but "ugly" (morbidly obese and unkept). Tallness doesn't make up for lack of looks, during this period I was practically invisible to women...but I didn't need to lose much weight for them suddenly to be interested.

There's a lot of chads on places like BB.com "Misc" who think they are worthless being only 5'9... I feel it's important to iterate here again; being tall does NOT make up for lack of aesthetics. Money does however. Whether it's the actual money or the power it comes with.

Natural_Singer · 2020-06-19T05:13:01+00:00

they live in a whole other world. Thats not an exaggeration and it sucks that inceldom has caused a really bad image of reality, but the truth is that unless you're particularly stupid or mentally ill, you're gonna have a very hard time living life as a chad

Title	What's it like being a Chad?
Author	GraphiteIsInPencils
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Comments	18
Date	June 19, 2020 1:48 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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