I went over to this chicks apartment. We were friends back in the day. Back in the day she actually used to have a crush on me. She has a BF but there on a “break” I know I’m playing a bit of a risky game but I’ll be fine.

Anyways we’re chilling and vibing and catching up. Eventually we starting making out. It was obvious she really wanted me. But it didn’t go much further than that. She said to me randomly “is it ok if we don’t fuck tonight?” And I just took it as a shit test and said “yeah sure Idc” kept making out then eventually she said she had to get some sleep. It’s like almost 4 am at this point so understandable. Don’t get me wrong well we were making out she gave me all the signals in the damn world. But I guess I just didn’t escalate past that. I honestly just wanted my dick sucked but she said she doesn’t do that.

Part of me understood that she needed sleep and had to wake up early but then the other part of me was like ok I drove out here and I didn’t get what I wanted if I leave now am I pussy??? So that’s where I’m conflicted it. My first thought it yeah ok she needs sleep for tmrw. Then I was thinking about shit that I’ve read on here about that being a shit test and that if I don’t close tonight i probably never will.

So yeah that’s my dilemma. Should I have been more assertive and kept escalating ignoring her words... cause even tho she was saying this she was all over me.

Orrr is it ok that I left without sealing the deal?? She told me to come to her party in a week or too so she still seemed interested in hanging out again.

I’ve been in this situation before and after I just feel like a pussy. Like damn why’d you listen to her? You could’ve legit just taken control of you tried.

I think I just waited too long to escalate so it was too late by the time shit was gonna go down. Also I didn’t escalate hard enough.... I gotta start fingering chicks idk why tf I don’t. I guess cause one of my gfs had like green mucus in her pussy that turned me away hard.

TLDR Is it ok that I didn’t fuck? We hungout and made out for a while and She said she had to sleep cause she had to get up early. Besides that though she seems very interested. But I can’t help but question that thought cause I know my instincts can be wrong. I’m a bit worried that I fucked up. She invited me to Hangout again next week. What should I take from this?