In a ltr 5 months really wanna fuck other girls

DWS33_ · 2020-07-02T20:33:10+00:00

the grass isn’t always greener. if she’s a good girl and treats you right i would stay. it’s hard finding a decent woman

but if you truly want other girls tell her straight up you don’t want to be together.

PokeyTifu99 · 2020-07-02T20:08:59+00:00

Fucking and not telling her is pussy man. Just break it off, tell her exactly what you said here.

mlgpc1 · 2020-07-02T20:00:41+00:00

If you want to have sex with other women break up with her.

Cheating is awful and if you decide to cheat you're an asshole.

T-toborn · 2020-07-02T20:56:31+00:00

Up to u, personally I say break up and do whatever but if u don't want to break up with her and fuck chicks on the side you'll get no judgement from me

mc711 · 2020-07-03T01:04:52+00:00

before you do anything, assess your situation and ask yourself...

do you have any plates or ONS lined up?

is there one particular girl you want to fuck or many?

can you handle a dry spell?

will you go into relapse for this LTR, can you stand losing this one possibly forever?

lastly, are you completely sure this is what you want and not just a spur of the moment thing?

don't make any decisions you will regret later. make your choice and follow through to the end.

Tousen71 · 2020-07-03T04:01:07+00:00

You sound young but every guy has been there. The same pussy gets old. It's like a game you've beaten a hundred times—still fun but most of the excitement was in the beginning.

That said, if you're okay with seriously hurting this girl and losing her, cheat. If not, don't cheat.

If you feel like you NEED to fuck someone new, break up with her. If YOU end it on good terms (being honest), you may be able to pick the relationship back up in the future (doubtful if she moves on but possible).

The morality of cheating is that it's pussy. If you weren't afraid of going without pussy you'd break up with her right now. The fact that you'd rather cheat is a sign of no/low abundance. If you want new girls drop this one and go get them, but it's weak to string her along as a life raft when the lone wolf lifestyle gets lonely. That's what girls do before they monkey branch.

Girls cheat because hypergamy, and typically their values are shit. They get bored easily and need to chase shiny things.

Guys are different. We value loyalty, real love, and feel compelled to honor our word.

Do what you want here but I do think men shouldn't be naive about female infidelity, but just better.

Love and leave them, but don't hold onto old toys.

TrashcanCity69 · 2020-07-02T20:50:45+00:00

Tell her you want to fuck other women and work it into a 3 some.

cunningcaring · 2020-07-02T20:55:01+00:00

Take her to a swinger club.

Sylvester_Sterone · 2020-07-02T21:57:57+00:00

You’re in a good position as you are the one getting bored.

See if she will do a threesome with one of her best friends.

Agustin_de_Iturbide · 2020-07-02T23:09:26+00:00

She is sexy and submissive and everything and I want to keep her around But I want to fuck people do I just fuck people and not tell her ??

So you will address the elephant on the room that you are just horny and want more?

Sure go for it, try some one night stands or girls not related to her social circle, maybe get a side plate if things go south in the future, as it doesn't look that bright in the moment. You could also be honest with yourself and tell her you just want to fuck around and cut it off.

Her mother cheated on her dad also does that mean she would definitely cheat in the right situation? And she also has an eating disorder

Well, if it helps you to rationalize your behavior, there is always the possibility a woman will disrespect you and later cheat on you (monkey branch) the moment you lose your frame, that is why it is difficult to find a LTR material, they are supposed to be low n count, trad girl, that understands you and accepts you in a non beta way and has her shit together, eating disorder being a red flag, that if you are invested, could redeem it. On the other hand, maybe she doesn't respect her mother for such a behavior, and despises cheating on others. I don't know, its your girl, do as you will.

TxnyMontana · 2020-07-03T01:49:50+00:00

As I see, being in a monogamous realtionship is not Natural. Homo sapiens wasn't having a LTR. They fucked all the chicks they can for the sake of the specie.

I think those kinda stuffs are still in the man firmware. So, wa can say LTR is more of a cultural agreement and shit.

That's why it's normal to feel what you feel. In my case, i'm in a happy LTR but I still wanna fuck every hot chick I see on the streets. The difference is that we all have choice. So, you can decide what to do.

Being in a LTR it's suposed to be something you want. So, do your math. If the chick is tight I'd keep her.

bruiser18 · 2020-07-03T09:12:18+00:00

Just cheat?

Guarnerre1995 · 2020-07-02T20:30:34+00:00

Glad these comments agree. If you want to whore around, break it up. Cheating is the worst

adamdublin1224 · 2020-07-02T22:06:32+00:00

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adamdublin1224 · 2020-07-02T21:08:23+00:00

Her mother cheated on her dad also does that mean she would definitely cheat in the right situation? And she also has an eating disorder

Title	In a ltr 5 months really wanna fuck other girls
Author	adamdublin1224
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Date	July 2, 2020 7:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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