Promoting a girl with no ambition to LTR

ay-fuh-q · 2020-07-05T14:57:39+00:00

All sounds good until you become the millionaire husband with a feminine stay-at-home wife.... but you were too stupid to get a pre-nup because "she hates all those feminists."

Women say what you want to hear, but this girl will drain you of everything if you believe you have found the unicorn among all unicorns.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-07-05T16:48:15+00:00

There it is again:

Feminine as fuck. Cooks. Cleans. Submissive.

Literally word - for - word. It's even better as it's always the same order of sequence.

Comment from another similar post:

My Gf is just about perfect. She cooks, cleans, submissive etc.

Is this some kind of meme? I swear I've seen this exact sentence word for word hundreds of time up until now.

benhurensohn · 2020-07-05T17:10:55+00:00

You are as boring as the people you hang with

2020-07-05T22:24:39+00:00

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ibhova · 2020-07-05T19:10:20+00:00

I don’t know. With the demanding nature of your job and your career trajectory, does it not make sense to have a girl like this?

For a stable family and kids?

rudolf_the_red · 2020-07-05T16:29:38+00:00

so you’re a high achieving, goal driven male, except when it comes to women. she can’t keep/find a minimum wage job but you expect her to care for your kids? say you have kids with this woman. do you want her raising your kids simply because she’s “feminine, cooks, cleans, submissive, no gay friends....and all that garbage”? either keep looking or settle. you’re not even 30 yet. you have time.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-07-05T22:39:36+00:00

If two cars start at the same point, one is going at 45mph and the other is going at 5mph, what's going to happen in 1h in terms of distance between the two at 1h?

Find you a partner that's not lagging too much behind you

tallblondehunnie · 2020-07-07T17:04:02+00:00

From what I’m reading you’re in need of a cleaner, a person that contributes to your lifestyle/ bank account (but doesn’t share it), a womb to carry your children, a personal chef, and an in house entertainer -at minimum. Your six figure salary can achieve these results separately : by hiring outside help.

At no point did I read life partner, lover, friend or even someone sexually compatible for that matter. For you, that may not be important as you already have a rotation.

Instead of LTR you have other options of fatherhood like solo adopting versus suffering through a relationship with someone who lacks ambition and contributes little to the conversation.

There are women that check all of the boxes you want and more. Hell, you could probably never marry some of them and live happily ever after in cohabitation bliss without a piece of paper or fear of your bank account being torn away from you.

Yet, with a constantly evolving list of hoops to jump through (and 4-5 chicks on the back burner ) you will ensure you never focus your efforts on one partner long enough to experience happiness with (without over analyzing her flaws).

Without being too harsh, my best advice is to get a dog - perhaps a passive breed (he won’t have a cell phone you need to check). It may not cook or clean or contribute, but it also won’t take half in the divorce you fear so much from a broken home childhood. The years spent spinning plates on apps includes avoiding emotional labor of any kind - may that be for a woman, the idea of family life or otherwise. Instead of frequenting Internet forums seeking advice I’d re-read your own post and think critically about why that is so and how you can change that.

For heavens sake, please don’t roll the dice locking down LTR relationships or bring children into this world to raise them with a partner you don’t share enough in common with. As you’ve said, you are “promoting” her because “spinning plates has gotten difficult”. Her drive and motivation is the last thing wrong with this bare minimum relationship you’ve been “vetting” for 8 months alongside 4-5 other back burner chicks. I get it, you fuck a lot, but this girlfriend upgrade sounds a lot like pandemic-induced loneliness.

For real LTR you will need to work on your own emotional intelligence and finding women with more substance/ more compatibility outside of your usual rotation.

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-07-05T15:00:17+00:00

a girl with no ambition

Plate material at best. Only read the title.

and has made ZERO effort to look for anything new in 4 months. Literally does nothing all day. Has zero interests outside of Netflix and cooking. Texts me all fucking day, nothing new to talk about,

Those girls are too fucking boring.

Boring boring boring boring

They're not even plate material, they're just physical meat lumps in the form of a vagina

You'll get bored, and you will be boring after a while because of her too. You'll be like her, no drive no ambition.

Middle ground definitely exists, but you have to mold them into your liking as usual.

You date girls because you want to have fun, you have sex to have fun.

If she isn't fun, why keep her around?

Title	Promoting a girl with no ambition to LTR
Author	TrumplsGod
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	July 5, 2020 2:46 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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