First off I’m 20 and I understand why to self improve. But I feel as if I’ve been stuck in my own head over the past year getting better. I’d like to say I never pursue women anymore because I just don’t feel as if I’m “ready” or “done” and I feel like I’ve just been a victim of only focusing on myself. I read books, I’ve been doing hobbies that give me more status, I dress better. I’ve become close with photographers my IG pics are so much better than most. But then I just see some dude that fucks a chick because she was drunk. Or gave her the time Of day that I’ve been advised not to give her because my time isn’t worth it. Honestly it just seems that women’s standards aren’t even that high and all this work is just extra. This isn’t a matter of “OP gets rejected so He’s bitching about it” it just seems redundant