I know trp speaks about working on your status, and money(looks too of course) but it seems that the significance of any of those things compared to being good looking is so minuscule that a guy is better off spending almost all of his time on improving his looks. Whether thats lifting, dressing better, grooming better, hair replacement, plastic surgery, or increasing his height through leg lengthening surgery. I'm making this more out of relief, because many guys have been told their whole life that it was all about confidence and personality, once you realize looks matter as much to women as they do to men then you stop worrying if you made a mistake with a woman(game). At the end of the day she knew if she was gonna fuck you before you said a word.

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One other thing. I know people have said that tinder has just made women more picky, or spoiled when it comes to mens looks. I think what tinder really did was reveal the truth that women care about looks as much as men and all the psychological studies they fill out in which they put looks at 4th-5th while men put looks first, is nonsense and looks are equally important to women as they are to us. What I really want is this myth that what women really want is a "nice", "confident", "interesting" man to die out. I want mothers to stop telling their daughters to look for men like this, I want mothers to stop telling their sons to be this. When the reality is, just be attractive.