asktrp, do you have friends that are girls who you don’t plate?

CharlesChadworth · 2018-12-18T12:06:22+00:00

Honestly I rarely have friends which are girls. Almost everytime I have made a good friend which is a girl it gets awkward. After spending time with them they get too close and confess feelings/crushes.... I dont find them attractive most of the time as I see them like friends. They usually get distant after I friend zone them.

Hence easier to have male friends.

gregoire_ · 2018-12-18T09:48:59+00:00

Yeah. It’s cool. My hobbies are stuff like cars and a few different sciences, so I don’t have too many women in my life who are just friends. That said, if some of my friends didn’t have flat asses or weird toes, I’d probably be into them.

anonswede · 2018-12-18T11:39:36+00:00

Lots of acquaintances I'm not intending to make a move on, but not really friends I hang out with regularly.

Bruchibre · 2018-12-18T11:20:37+00:00

Yes: sport teammates, former flat mates, girlfriends of friends...

TheOEDWY · 2018-12-18T11:59:04+00:00

Like most Red Pillers, I have a hard time being friends with girls. Female nature makes it difficult along with the fact that I spend a lot of time on my mission, self improvement, and my hobbies aren’t exactly female friendly. Objectively though, I think it is beneficial if you have girls in the friend zone. It helps with abundance mindset and instills some dread into plates and LTRs. I’ve also found they’re a good window into female nature. I started picking up on RP principles at a young age long before I ever found TRP just from hanging out with female friends. You would just have to be careful to not have feelings for any of them, otherwise you’re shooting yourself in the foot.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2018-12-18T12:08:57+00:00

I have some. They usually end up attracted...but I just use it to establish boundaries and hold frame. I'm very honest about not being into them...and if they accept that, all good.

[deleted] · 2018-12-18T13:23:07+00:00

Yes ofcourse!

justathrowaway1424 · 2018-12-18T22:43:24+00:00

A decent amount but I’ve hooked up with half of them at some point

TheBigPone · 2018-12-18T09:09:39+00:00

I think it is fine, but I don't have females that I call friends since I've been reading on TRP. I noticed they were never down for the stuff I like to do like my male friends were, and they never got my back, so why bother.

Title	asktrp, do you have friends that are girls who you don’t plate?
Author	SelfHelpAcc
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	December 18, 2018 8:20 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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