What do you talk on dates?

AloofusMaximus · 2020-07-13T22:58:10+00:00

Women fucking love talking, and especially about themselves.

I don't have a particular "script" i use on dates, but generally follows the flow of... Small talk, talk about life/work/interests, past relationships, sex, end the date after about about an hour or so (I'll sometimes go out to an hour and a half if I'm having a good time). Each topic builds on the other, and it's a natural jump from talking about relationships to sex (and most women love talking about sex).

When I first started self improvement/introspection, I asked some of the women from my past what THEY thought my best qualities were. I was pretty surprised to learn that all of them said I was a great conversationalist. I never particularly thought I was at the time, but it's because I genuinely listen when people are talking (most of the time).

Since you're an autist and need some help, there are some technical aspects to talking/listening. So when someone makes a statement you can gather information, and continue the conversation. "Hey Sally, are you originally from Dallas", "No Joe, I'm originally from Kansas but stayed here after school". From her answer you have several directions you can take the conversation. You can ask about school, about Kansas, talk about how different Dallas is from Kansas, it must have been scary/exciting to move to a new city,etc.

Also try to avoid rapid fire questions, most questions can also be phrased as statement. Instead of "are you originally from Dallas" you could say "you don't sound like you're from around here". Same thing, just phrased differently.

Lastly is to just relax, stop worrying so much about it and just have fun and enjoy it.

mlgpc1 · 2020-07-13T22:20:36+00:00

Usually begin with small talk. Getting to know the girl, where she is from, what she does in life, hobbies, movies, etc...

After that you talk about whatever you want.

BluzzKill · 2020-07-13T22:21:39+00:00

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Snowboard18 · 2020-07-14T01:24:10+00:00

Small talk and asking her questions about herself. They love talking about themselves and if you get them to do like 80-90% of the talking, then she doesn’t know as much about you so you remain mysterious

amwfhunter · 2020-07-14T02:03:34+00:00

Usually basic type issues like food, travel, memories (for longer plates) or social issues. Im comfortable discussing political issues and religious to a degree even. Whatever the conversation leads to, or interesting things that happen. Music. Workout and health and fitness Etc. When in doubt I just kiss them and get affectionate because all of these relationships are sexual in nature.

TXJohn83 · 2020-07-13T23:56:23+00:00

What are the subjects you talk about on a date?

a) When she is going to suck your cock or bring a friend over.

b) When is she going to bring a friend over.

Title	What do you talk on dates?
Author	goingredwithabang
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Date	July 13, 2020 9:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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