I usually have solid logistics. We meet in the first bar, we get to talk, get to know each other and so on, and then we move to the second location which has banks and is dimmer and at this point girls HAVE TO sit next to me. From there on out, it is just a matter of finding the right excuse to get them closer and it's usually to show them something on the phone or vice versa. Sometimes they sit next to me and these are the easiest.

But it's happened a few times, today for example, that even when we are in the second location, they just keep half a meter away from me. Today's girl just took it to the next level by rejecting every single advance to get her closer to me. I asked her to show me pictures from her travels, she straight up declined because she's so insecure about her photos or whatever the fuck. I even joked about how she's keeping her distance as if I had the coronavirus, and she said I'm not wearing a mask jokingly. I tried showing her stuff on my phone, and she never got close. I tried touching her on the arms a few times and she was so self-conscious about it she didn't let me.

Basically, she closed every single angle I tried escalating from and we ended up having a boring conversation I wrapped up the moment I lost hope. Even at the end she even said she had fun hanging out and left. And I'm like, "Okay...?" And just went on.

What on earth did I do wrong. The date was fun. We talked a lot. A lot of push and pull, teasing and overall fun time. There was clearly chemistry, and at the end I gave her a bike ride which she enjoyed lol but there was no sexual tension.

Was she just not that into me...or?