we've hung out maybe 4 times. Fucked last time. Things have been great. She's been eager to see me.

She said : what happened last time isn't going to happen again. That was just trial sex. I don't have sex with someone unless I'm in a relationship.

First of all what the fuck sense does that make. I took it as a shit test and brushed it off non reactively. But like.. what the actual fuck? .. debating a soft next here.

She's been wanting to see me lately, even last night she said we should hang out without pants lol

What's your opinion?

Edit: she just texted me I don't know what you're looking for with me. I feel like it's weird to ask or that I'm looking for a specific answer, which I'm not. What can I say to this?

Honestly I don't want a relationship. I'm not getting into a relationship with a 21 year old who hasn't ridden the carousel yet. It's gonna be a bad time. I don't want to lie to her, and I don't want the string her along. But I know if I'm completely honest with her it's going to turn her off 100%. So I'm kind of in a bad spot here. So in the meantime I'm going to start cultivating more plates.