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[–]2SirKolbath2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This gets asked so damn much I actually have a macro on my phone to reply to it.
u/MattyAnon's Law of /askTRP:
"If the original post contains any reference to 'this girl', the diagnosis is oneitis."
Read the sidebar. Lift. Game other girls.
Sir Kolbath's statement on oneitis:
"If at any time you are focusing on one girl, you are by definition ignoring the remaining 3.66 billion girls."
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My favourite ones start with "My one and only plate who I love dearly....."
[–]Project_Zero_Betas0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sir Kolbath's statement on oneitis: "If at any time you are focusing on one girl, you are by definition ignoring the remaining 3.66 billion girls
"If at any time you are focusing on one girl, you are by definition ignoring the remaining 3.66 billion girls
Hashtag logic
[–]verified321-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I already lift daily and do well financially, academically, etc.
Idk if you're aware of the current situation going on but it's not as easy to meet new girls.
[–]2SirKolbath2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you don't want to listen to the answers I recommend not asking the questions. You've had several people here tell you that they've seen this same thing multiple times. You are choosing to ignore the very advice for which you asked.
You're not special. As I said, this has happened so many times that I have a fucking hotkey on my phone to answer it. This very question will be asked at least ten more times this week. We will give the same advice, and there are a few who will follow it and a few who will be so entrenched in their own myopic idiocy that they'll refuse.
There will also be at least one dipshit who will give advice straight out of /relationships rather than /TheRedPill, and more often than not the person asking will take that advice because it's what he expected and it involves less work, even though it's not Red Pill and is exactly what he was already doing that wasn't working!
You came here to get Red Pill advice from a Red Pill viewpoint. If you're ignoring it because you "know better" then you're an idiot. If you're choosing to take advice from people who don't participate here and don't know the first thing about our subreddit or why it exists but happened to have your question pop up in their feed, then you're way past stupid.
I submit that you're not stupid. If I thought you were I wouldn't reply. So start reading the sidebar material at the link I sent you and quit talking about how you are "already there" and "doing well". There is always room for improvement.
Idk if you’re aware of the current situation going on but it’s not as easy to meet new girls.
I don't know if you're aware of this, but sarcasm in response to people giving you advice is a sure fire way to get them to tell you to eat a bag of lightly salted assholes. You came to us asking for help. What you think you know is clearly not working. If it were, you wouldn't be here, so button your lip and stop putting pussy on a pedestal.
Do not use this lockdown panic as an excuse to inflate the value of pussy. It didn't get any more rare. Your perception is what changed.
The game changed. It didn't vanish.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While I agree with u/SirKolbath because
So there’s this girl
is a hard and fast rule around here, I’m willing to entertain a new concept.
Here’s the game
Do a breakdown of your post/interaction and correctly identify all of the issues, problems, mistakes and I’ll tell you exactly...
What to do in this situation
If you have read the sidebar as you claim...then you got this...
Make me proud. I’ll fill in the blanks if you leave anything out.
Edit: Also his response to this comment is gold. Feel free to choose to STFU and game other girls.
[–]DCHitsDiff1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
There are so many things in this that signal to me that you haven't read and really internalized the sidebar/the rational male.
Read, internalize, and understand the content. You won't need people on the internet to answer your question about this one girl afterward.
[–]verified321-2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've read the sidebar and it's all practical advice, but I'm looking for help in this particular situation from someone experienced.
[–]DCHitsDiff0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You shouldn’t be so hell bent on one girl in one situation.
You’re playing in her frame and thinking about this shit too much.
You should have more options. More leads. More potential women to fuck. If you did, you wouldn’t have spent 30 mins writing 3 paragraphs about this one girl you almost had a 5% chance of fucking.
[–]verified321-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude, idk where you live but where I am, everything is closed and everyone is staying at home. It's not exactly easy meeting new girls.
It took me less than 10 minutes to write this and my chances were higher than that.
Lose the ego, I'm just asking for friendly advice.
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