Is it beta to tell a girl you miss her after not seeing her for 3 weeks?

Musicgoon · 2020-07-29T22:46:08+00:00

Stop with all this beta shit. You know if you say ,"I miss you". She won't think poorly of it.

The next thing on this sub will be: Is it beta if I breathe too much air?

Quit being a retard. Say what's on your mind and don't apologise for it.

Psychological_Radish · 2020-07-29T22:50:15+00:00

The context and how you say it is what matters here.

"I miss that cute face" is fine. "I miss you so much baby, I hate not being with you" is not fine. And obviously you don't hand out these sentiments like candy. This is further explained in basic sidebar material.

definitelynotjakhi · 2020-07-29T22:43:32+00:00

It’s beta to ask if something is beta. Do whatever the fuck you want.

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-07-29T23:09:21+00:00

It's "beta" to use the term "beta" if that makes sense?

Stop being a whiny pussy about it. If you miss her and are genuinely being nice, and its in the context of regular messaging/calls with a girl who is as into you as you are them, then it's perfectly normal and you shouldn't need to ask.

The fact you're asking leads me to suspect she's not really into you, you don't communicate often, and you're just going to come across as needy.

We need more info in short.

2020-07-29T23:13:23+00:00

No, delivery matters more then what you say.

KIsarek · 2020-07-29T23:35:07+00:00

Fuck I understand why the senior guys on this sub are so angry all the time.

seanconneryfan_ · 2020-07-30T01:06:58+00:00

speak with actions. from personal experience, i have a 0% success rate with telling girls i miss them, so i don’t. but do what you want.

2020-07-30T00:07:49+00:00

It's better not to say it if you are a beginner.

HauntingYam0 · 2020-07-30T01:03:03+00:00

Only betas care what might be thought of by others as beta behavior....

.... my advice though? Tell her you missed her only after she's fucked you the next time you see her.

Title	Is it beta to tell a girl you miss her after not seeing her for 3 weeks?
Author	kashnikov
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	July 29, 2020 10:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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