It's not bothering me as much anymore but I still see it as a potential issue going into my 24th year.

I'm starting to think like the old me like if someone were to like you most trivial things wouldn't matter especially if they genuinely like you but when it comes to dating it still on Mia's the man to try to figure her out.

You do not know the disappointment and shame that comes when you at least are doing well with the girl and then she asks about your sexual experience.

I tried lying before and I have tried nudging the conversation into another Direction but I shouldn't have to lie and according to you guys the experience shouldn't be a problem anyway but my experience tells me that's just Far From Reality.

I know how to talk and flirt is just a technical stuff that I am still missing but it's hard to imagine any girl will see this as a positive or A something attractive.

I was on the phone with my cousin last night he basically kept telling me to just dive in and only stop when she says stop and of course that's stupid and not going to work on every girl.

I keep hearing that as you get older most people don't want to deal with being someone's test run yet at the same time it almost feels like I've been locked out of dating because I do not want to go through the awkward moments of seeing the girl's face and hearing her Express her opinions about my virginity and it's not usually in a positive light.

What works as a attractive and suave depend solely on the girl and how she takes it.

And I feeling this weird position to where skipped out on so much sexual experience because I was terrified of making a girl uncomfortable but I'm learning now that some girls even enjoy that and expected that from me.

All this time being alone because of miscommunication girls aren't going to tell you exactly how and when they want it.

I tried to go blindly in with a girl to lose my virginity and that was two years ago and I still cringe at that.