LTR’s libido has dropped immensely

misfithustle · 2020-08-01T02:09:05+00:00

She doesn't want to have sex.

With you.

skuttt · 2020-08-01T05:01:03+00:00

Your value has fallen in her eyes and her back brain doesn’t want to risk having your kids. You still offer resources so she’s sticking around. She’ll fuck the next higher value man she meets that will let her. If he’ll commit to her she’ll branch swing.

Fixing this is not worth it. Leave, lift, build value.

DatRiggz · 2020-08-01T02:14:03+00:00

If you feel it's a comfort test and comfort doesn't solve it what are you left with brother? Better throw some spice in or you're about to know a ghost. Best of luck.

throwhawayyyy · 2020-08-01T02:23:40+00:00

How long have you been in the relationship? In my past LTR, the sex life was initially great but a year into it, it started dying. Spice things up and don’t have the same dates every time you meet. For me it got repetitive when she would come over to my uni dorm and we fuck and stay in bed most of the day. Try something different such as do a cool activity then come home and fuck.

Also you’re giving her too much comfort, she thinks you’ll stay no matter what without sex. You need to put some dread if she keep slacking off. Show her that you have other options and you can get sex from other women. Stop with the “baby don’t worry, I’ll stay with you no matter what”. You don’t have to say anything to her, just brush it off with a np. Let your actions do the talking. Soft next her for a few days but don’t act dry when talking and act like it never happened.

Edit: read your other post. It seems like she has genuine paranoia because of the incident in the car. Try getting a hotel or fucking in an all gender bathroom in a building

hibloodstevia · 2020-08-01T05:04:42+00:00

When she comes home, does her breath smell kind of like salty ammonia?

If so, do whatever you are doing, but harder.

Natural_Singer · 2020-08-01T14:40:20+00:00

im gonna take a big fat guess that at some point in ur relationship, u got too comfortable and u put her priorities ahead of urs. U can deny it, u can rationalize it, but by evidence of her lack of desire to fuck u, its pretty evident that thats the case.

How would I know? Because in all my ltr's that attraction never suffered - i was constantly way too fucking busy to see her that often. Maybe once or twice a week every other week.

my gfs always knew what was up - if i wasnt working, spending valuable time by myself, or just chilling with my friends, i was busy one of 3 of my other hobbies like lifting, learning the guitar, or learning kick boxing.

She understood that i was just a busy person who was constantly pulled in 5 different directions and that turned her the fuck on. Her waiting to see me turned her the fuck on. Her wondering how my workouts were going turned her the fuck on.

She didnt see me loaf on a couch day after day after day after day doing fuck all

alfred311 · 2020-08-01T15:58:35+00:00

You are over analyzing, the girl just not attracted to you any more

If its brad pitt shes DTF anywhere, in his car, garage, in public, or anywhere brad wants it to be

Remember if its an LTR dont forget you daily dose of STFU, breath STFU, shower STFU, be autistic and master the art of STFU and shes probably still all over you

2020-08-01T14:53:22+00:00

“I just have mental issues and im depressed and I dont feel like being touched lately”

The attraction is gone.

Prepare to exit the relationship.

Title	LTR’s libido has dropped immensely
Author	cubanito223
Upvotes	2
Comments	17
Date	August 1, 2020 2:02 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/i1k9tz/ltrs_libido_has_dropped_immensely/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/ltrs-libido-has-dropped-immensely.720149 https://theredarchive.com/post/720149

Comments