getting disrespected by friends girlfriends

Rolfenstien · 2020-08-02T11:43:02+00:00

Your friends are getting with shitty women. Think about that for a second, think about what that says about the people you hang with.

Who gives a fuck what they think? like you said they hardly know you sometimes. Find some ways of not letting validation come from whether your friends GFs like you. Love yourself brother. Use agree and amplify to dodge the disrespect coming your way.

MisterRoid · 2020-08-02T12:54:29+00:00

Do you wear glasses? That combined with certain hobbies makes people assume you are a beta nerd by default.

PharaoEgo · 2020-08-02T11:18:33+00:00

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Eastuss · 2020-08-02T13:27:46+00:00

What kind of contempt is this? is it contempt because you're too beta or because you're too masc? Like have you friends told their gf you're redpilled and their first reaction is to shit at you? Or on the contrary are they considering you to be such a beta you're the lowest female of the group?

If it's the later, i'd question wtf are these friends you are before even worrying about their girls.

In the mean time, as other said, dgaf.

Natural_Singer · 2020-08-02T13:37:38+00:00

The fact that ur friends rnt stepping up to defend u says a lot about them.

Talk to ur friends and if they defend u, u have free reign to talk back to defend urself since ure being so disrespected.

They do it cause so far uve let them get away with it. They sense that youre not the type of person who expresses himself and says whats right and so far theyve been correct in their assessment of you.

Best way to deal with them? Like how a disapproving parent would to a spoiled child. Not angrily or full of emotion, but in a matter of fact way of disapproval.

Ex) “Haha why r u on tinder? U couldnt get laid anyways”

“Maybe u should get to know someone more than 2 days before cracking jokes like that.”

hedged6161 · 2020-08-02T13:27:59+00:00

I think the problem is that your “friends” are talking shit about you to their girlfriends. Which is so beta, gossiping like little girls. Would tell the girl next time “you watch the way you speak to me” and go from there

BubblePomelo · 2020-08-02T13:31:34+00:00

I know I wouldn't let my girl disrespect my friends.

Are these people actually your friends?

HurricaneHugues · 2020-08-02T19:58:02+00:00

What are your friends telling these girls that's making them think they can disrespect you like that? Your friends are the problem here, not the girls. Also your general behavior is a problem too if your friends don't have any positive and strong to say about you

michael1962-01 · 2020-08-02T11:32:12+00:00

dgaf about it. smile and lough it away as it would be a comment of your silly little sister. then shove your tounge into your gf. ask the gf's gf - "mind bringing us some coffee?" if she shakes a no - use "let's go!" on your gf. if she does not react on your side, just smile and leave.

Title	getting disrespected by friends girlfriends
Author	PharaoEgo
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	August 2, 2020 10:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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