I noticed in the past all the guys i really liked got hit on by gays constantly. They were both students with tall, slim and willowy look and both looked younger than their age.

I seem to attract guys who had issues in the past such as being abused by their dad (emotional abuse) , broke and is desperately trying to fit in the crowd which is turn off for me. They havent traveled much like i did, and emotionally bit dismissive.

The only good thing was their looks. They didnt even goto gym often but genetically just had slim tall body with wide shoulders. (I’m not into muscular six pack type of guy)

Physically this is my type but im wondering why i attract guys who are broke and have nothing to offer other than their looks. Aside from being broke, they couldnt communicate in deeper emotional level also and acts like a boy. Doesnt know how to put themselves together such as being messy. I dont miss him internal ways but miss his looks bc the sex was amazingly good. But i didnt want to date someone who was less than me in terms of life experiences and finances. We couldnt talk about travel as he didnt goto where i traveled to, certain lfiestyle as he grow up in lower middle class.

I know i’m attracted to this looks but not their other qualities. I tried dating guys who had hvm quality but i just couldnt force myself to develop feelings for him and i even didnt mind if he was talking to other girls. I didnt feel jealousy.