I am not a beginner but I need some feedback.

Met a girl on Tinder. It's the type of a girl that installed the app after a breakup after a 5 year long relationship. They broke up few months ago. Gave me a superlike. Told me only gave a like to 3 dudes so far. I invited her over. Now I want you to understand how she felt about me. She told me she can't come cause I'm too hot for her and she wants to get in shape. I told her I like how she looks and that she should not worry. She told me that she hopes that I won't see her as immature cause there is 10 years difference between us - 18 and 28. That she feels like a more mature person(only a mature person can see how immature this sounds, really). When we met, she constantly complimented me. Whenever I disagreed with her opinion, she agreed with me so I would like her more I guess. I've been on many dates to see that she was very much into me. She asked and I told her I'm not here to look for a relationship nor ONS.

I listed the red flags. All girls have some and these were not so bad considering she is young. In the years I've been dating and meeting girls, I can only count two girls, with her included, that I've enjoyed to be with so much. I cared about her opinions, we had similar interests and she was passionate, nice, feminine, beautiful and what I liked the most, she was not the depressed, always negative type of a girl that I meet so much these days ("haha I cry to sleep" shows me a depression meme).

I was infatuated, I admit, but I can work with that. The sex was one of the best I've ever had. I actually learned something from her and she did not even know about that. It's because she actually told me what she wants and was proactive without trying to be dominating. Most of the girls I fuck don't know what they are doing or try to show off by trying to rip off my dick. We spent 8 hours together. She invited me about 5 times to come to her place the next day. I walked her home, she invited me again and I told her "we will see" with a smile on my face.

I made two mistakes that I know of: 1. I told her, while just cuddling and talking naked on the sofa, that I don't know what I enjoy more, fucking her, or this(the cuddling). Don't judge me, it's nice to feel close to someone from time to time. 2. I was getting more and more physically tired and my posture showed this.

The next day she texts me how beaten up she is and that the pain feels good. I told her that I can come and help her with the pain. She said she likes that but will reconsider. She did not reply only but three days later invites me again. I did not like this. She invited me 5 times and when I say yes, she says she'll reconsider?

Anyway I told her I can't because i was not in the city. She proposes another date, next weekend after we met the last time which I agree with. She does not respond so I ask again telling her to respond because I have to be sure so I can make other plans if we don't go. She says to make other plans cause she is going to a cottage party. When she comes back on Sunday, she only then responds telling me she has time the next day (I did not ask her)

Now I tell her "probably" no. She says "Are you trying to look hard to get?". I reply "I thought that's what you're doing". She says "Well I went you your house on our first date". I reply "I mean after. You invited me several times and when I finally say yes, you say you'll reconsider. When you invite me the second time, you cancel two hours before. I'm not saying we have to go out again. But I don't know what you're trying to do. I'm not a second plan date, and I don't like to be led on. And finally, I don't play these type of games".

No reply and unmatch after two days. (I still have her number and she is by chance a neighbor of my best friend so she knows I can contact her if I really wanted to)

Any other girl I would not even explain myself to. With this one, I knew I was getting too much into her, so I know my judgement is not straight and the best.

My question for you is, was I too harsh? Should I be the more mature one and just accept she is just trying to play something? Because she did invite me three times. Should I just go and wet my dick because the sex was so good? And lastly, wtf was that? Every time a girl was so much into me, she tried to fix things or apologized after being reminded of her stupid game playing stuff or denied something. Throwaway because fuckers ban me on other subs just for posting on TRP.