17 and need some wisdom

quickdrawmccaw · 2021-01-19T08:04:46+00:00

Bitches flirt because they want to take you from another bitch to feed their superiority complex. If you did break up with your girlfriend to try and get this other girl, she would disappear off the face of the earth (as far as you’re concerned). If you have a good girl don’t be envious of thots. Every guy in this sub is ultimately looking for what you have. Trp Isn’t about not showing women respect and dedication. It’s about only showing that respect and dedication to those who truly deserve it, and treating the “others” accordingly. A lot of younger guys and other generally insecure users on this sub fail to grasp that. It’s ok to treat a woman well. Just understand how to keep her acting well and keep yourself desirable.

If you want to breakup with her because you truly want to fuck other girls, do it. But if you want to do it because it’s what the internet and pop culture told you, you’re just as cucked as the women this sub whines about all day.

Leonardslemons · 2021-01-19T08:02:29+00:00

When I was 17 I loved my girlfriend too, I managed to get a hall pass from her and played the field. I broke up with her shortly after. I regretted breaking up with her because I felt lonely. After some time, I realized the relationship I was in, was never going to last.

When I was 17, I had an idea of what life was going to look like, I had aspirations, plans. Those have changed, unpredictability so. I'm glad I had the freedom to explore my younger years without worrying about the roots that would ground me.

Long story short, odds are your relationship ends anyways. Life will get in the way, or you won't let it, and you'll just end up wondering what it could have been and you'll resent her for it. Go have fun, be young and stupid. It will hurt at first, but you'll get through it.

btt069 · 2021-01-19T11:22:13+00:00

listen kid, its not about having multiple sex partners. though people spin plates and feel like alpha and its completely fine but you should also know that if one person is fulfilling to you and you love that person your whole life then thats a legend in itself. that also requires luck man. pure loyalty is different than just having alpha qualities. pure things need more investment.
if you break up with her or cheat on her with that new bitch. you will feel not nice at your age. sometimes just feeling grateful at what you have is the best decision you can take. this sub may be trp but purple pill advices are also important to listen. thinking of marrying her? do she ask the same? if thats the case or if that does happen in near future then you are either extremely lucky or you will get extremely bored. there are solutions to not get bored. at your age try everything with your gf if she is also interested.

spinning plates or having a single woman throughout life have something in common: toxicity is the main problem.

its not about being alpha or beta all the time.

being the right man and taking the right decisions is what anyone desires. no one wants to be stipid and those who gaslight have literally nothing to do. leave them.

fucking feel grateful for you are lucky. it takes time to think about marriage so go on how it works. dont overthink. and the most admired trait of a man is his unpredictability so that woman doesnt find her man boring. good luck

RelucBeam · 2021-01-19T11:06:57+00:00

The truth is, your girl most likely feels the same lol

I dunno how that helps you, but all I'm saying is don't stress about it.

You and your girl will likely break up soon. Let it all happen naturally

SS-CoCoNuT · 2021-01-19T11:44:13+00:00

why have one when you can have both

ass-thetics · 2021-01-19T12:14:18+00:00

I'm in the exact same boat man. We're 18 and been together for a year. Lost our virginities to each other. We get a long so well and as weird as it sounds we've even talked about having kids in a joking way. She used to make me lunches at school which was possibly the sweetest thing any human has done for me. It's tough because I know I can be fucking with a bunch of other girls. A lot of them have shown interest and even told me they want to fuck, but I sometimes wonder if it's better to have lots of sex with someone you really have a connection with, versus maybe sex every so often with strangers. I most definitely dont want to die with an n count of 1. I think what's best is to let it play out or wait for her to show red flags. Makes a good excuse. I almost wish I could have a year or two to fuck around and then get back together but that's an unlikely scenario. PM me if you want to have a chat.

Jacked5parrow · 2021-01-19T10:38:34+00:00

Suggest threesome

cunningcaring · 2021-01-19T11:49:51+00:00

You need to experience a lot of different women before you decide to get married. Don't let that new relationship energy make decisions or you.

Atomz00 · 2021-01-19T22:04:22+00:00

Youve got years of horsing ahead of you.

youre 17. nature will take its course. you may be the 1% that goes through to marriage?!

what happens after high school? different colleges? just wait until then.

i can promise you, if you dump her just to fuck some skank youll regret it as you get older.

Title	17 and need some wisdom
Author	eggheadedidiot
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	January 19, 2021 7:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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