I generally dont like posting and reading here anymore or analysing interactions that much but I'm getting pretty discouraged from dating and I dont know where else to ask this.

My last few dates havent gone well. Either theyve had an excuse to not come to mine after, or they arent keen on a followup.

I've been told I'm a hot guy, some girls have even said I'm the perfect guy. I lift a lot and have a lot of things I do that I'm passionate about (skating, playing guitar, reading), I would also say I'm pretty confident and can hold a good conversation. I have developed a lot since I started reading here.

I just feel like theres something missing from my dates, maybe I'm not forward enough, or theres something I'm doing thats offputting.

Any advice? Thanks fellas