So she broke up with her ex quite recently (last month). I never knew her before then and got introduced to her through a mutual acquaintance.

She claims she likes me (even her friend said I’m her type) and is over her ex but is afraid to get into a relationship because she loves too much when she is in one and it might be too much for me to handle. She even said ‘when people don’t recover that’s how you end up calling out someone else’s name during sex.’

She’s never allowed me to go further than us dry humping and kissing on her neck etcetera. She even told me long after I dropped off once that she was actually quite wet. She specifically told me this after I was gone so I couldn’t capitalise on it or push her further. She says she never lets it go far because she likes me and that maybe if she liked me less than she could just do something without the risk of her catching feelings. She even claims I’m her type. In the past she claims she’s only had sex in the context of long term relationships (2/3 so far).

In my last meeting with her I was dropping off medication(she told me she had a headache and she insisted I don’t come when I offered and that it would be too much effort on my part). I offered and she said it’s fine. I bought the medication and showed up at her college residence anyways. When she collected it she hopped in my car and we spoke for an hour. I told her I just had the intention of dropping it off and leaving. She said she knew but enjoyed our conversations. When I tried to pull in for the kiss as she left she turned her head away and then quickly left the car.I told her to wait but she laughed and said bye and ran into her residence.

Thing is I’m seeing her tomorrow for a college field trip and then we have a Netflix and chill session scheduled for Tuesday. The interesting part is the Tuesday session will be the first time we will be alone in a private setting together (her roommate is leaving). We’ve only ever interacted in public and in my car. How should I best approach this? Why would she even allow the Netflix session to go ahead when she’s aware I will probably try and sleep with her.

Any advice? (preferably ethical but unethical welcome as well). Please no advice that I should talk to other women. Already am. I’m asking about this particular scenario.