Life and times of a 25year old

First post, and is a story, warning, and a ask for advice on how to move forward and protect myself in my current situation as I adopt MGTOW philosophy.

As it sits right now, I am 25m. I have a bachelors degree, and am a commercial pilot. (Great career in Covid I know)

I got married at 21 in college because I suffered from white knight syndrome. I tried to save someone. This ended brutally as can be expected. I did this so she could get financial aid to get into college. She dropped out 3 weeks later. I was stupid thinking she wasn’t a gold digger Dated her for 6 years. Ended up taking a 4 week on and 2 week off job only to find another dude in my bed when I got home. I shook his hand and said thank you. Divorced at 23, and divorce was done in 67 days. This is my advice to those who think you can save them. You can’t. Go your own way.

My present situation. I’m in a relationship that is rapidly ending with a girl I knew for 14 years. We reconnected around the time of my divorce. 3 months later she was pregnant. She supposedly was taking the pill. (Yeah I’m stupid for ever trusting that)

When we got together she was this hot shot executive assistant. She is a mother already. I made a mistake dating a single mother. Don’t do it.

Suddenly red flags appeared and she got pregnant, and became a different person because she trapped me.

GO YOUR OWN WAY.

Fast forward to October. She miscarried at 23 weeks. Safe to say I was devastated despite no longer being trapped. As I further discover, the miscarriage was caused by a hidden addiction to prescription pills and this substance called kratom. Nasty fucking shit but legal. Look it up and you’ll see everyone swear by it until you read r/quittingkratom.

She was the cause of it. The cause of the miscarriage and the reason my daughter didn’t get a chance to live.

Currently we are sitting here coming up on Christmas. The relationship is done. I’ve checked out. I’m waiting until the new year so her toddler child can have a decent Christmas and not kick her out of my house this second.

Men. Go your own way.

Now my request for advice. How do I get rid of her, and maintain some sort of ethical code? If it was just her I wouldn’t care. But her 2 year old is there. I won’t fuck the kid up.

The future i will adopt a pure MGTOW philosophy. I’m planning on getting an RV and live full time in it. Never dating again. Borderline monk status. It’s just not worth the liability.

I hope this story is somewhat of a warning to younger people than me about the dangers of getting tied up with a single mother, the dangers of dating, the dangers of cohabitation. They’ll trap your ass and become gold diggers damn quick.

If I can offer any advice, to anyone about situations they’re in, as I come to my own conclusions, philosophy, and my decisions about the future please message me.