Hi Ladies! I could use some of your input. I feel like I messed up, but received conflicting messages when I spoke to my guy friend and a couple girlfriends about what happened when I went on date 4 last night with a man I'm interested in. My date and I live 50 miles apart. He always meets me at a restaurant near me. We met last night and he told me how he was planning on going to Vegas with a bunch of guy friends (all married). He told me later in the night he’d rather just go with me and see a bunch of shows as I told him I’ve grown out of the clubbing scene. He asked if I wanted to go on an all expense paid trip (by him). I changed the subject because I don’t want to go on a trip with a man who I’m not sure where I stand with. Last night he finally said I should meet him at his house in his city and we could watch movies etc. I, however, don't want to meet him in his house and possibly hook up with him and get put into the casual zone. I was hesitant when he asked me to do so and I told him, me driving to his place, would be a waste of my time if he's talking to other girls, then I asked him if he was and he said he wasn't. He said he understood my perspective. I restated that I'm not looking for anything casual and he said I know what your'e looking for and I'm on the same page. He said let’s give it time. I’m not sure where to go with this? Should I continue seeing him? Edited: fixed typos